[looking4first]

Hey guys, i"m straight and completely sexually unexperienced....completely. I think I want my first blow to be from a guy, but I don't really know how to go about getting it. I'm really nervous and excited about it, but I'm not sure how to get it.

[KewlDewd66]

Judging by your profile, I'd say, you are looking for 'no strings attached - sex only' kinda experience, where discretion is of importance for you.

If this is the case, a quick trip to the local cruising groundsn with some patience, courage and loads of common sense will do the trick just fine. Relax, look around, hunt your man down and you'll get what you want.

Another option would be to look around among the dudes you know, and see if anyone might be quietly looking for someone to experiment with. If so, there you go. But make sure that you do the talk first, so that the other dude knows what to expect and that both of you know, what your limits really are.

CFS and similar sites are another avenue you may want to explore, though if you are only looking for a quick satisfaction, frankly nothing beats the real cruising with real people around you.

Most people combine the approaches and try to fish out, whom they feel might be the most qualified dude. Sure, this requires some patience and is always a bit of a 'hit and miss' as the saying goes.

Last but not least, when it comes to sex, courage and good common sense practically always win. Sitting at home and hpoing that something may happen is the least productive approach.

So, go online, talk to the dudes around you and hit the road a bit. Among the the three, you are sure to find a willing partner or two.

KD

[NJNYfun]

I can totally relate to where you're coming from, because I was right there a few years ago. I fantasized about being with other guys for a loooooong time before I got up the courage to act on it. And I am VERY glad that I did!!

I would agree with mostly everything Kewldude said, with the exception that I would definitely check out some spots in person rather than the Internet. I've found for the most part, that guys in Internet chat rooms are largely fake, liars, etc. At least when you're cruising in person - you see exactly what you are getting.

If you're just looking to have a guy give you a bj (and not vice versa), you should have NO problem finding that at your local ABS. My biggest disappointment is that normally when I visit looking for some cock to suck, there are 10 guys there looking to suck (just like me), and hardly any looking to receive!! I wish there were more guys like you hanging in my favorite spots lol.

[KewlDewd66]

Yup, the net is full of both the Fakes and the Flakes. This, sadly, goes without saying these days. No one really sees this changing anytime soon.

I also like WSIWYG approach as opposed to the usual waste of time and energy on the net. But for many dudes out there, for whatever their reasons may be, net is the only way to hook up with other guys.

I also have noticed that there is a great deal of disproportion in numbers of pitchers and receivers, the pitchers being a dwindling minority in some parts.

If you'd rather pitch, it may pay off to advertise, though, as you'll get a good number and a variety to choose from.

KD