Originally Posted by jonn3

Also I think the fact you had seen many of the guys naked - in the dorms - in the showers - you were used to that - and it was a major first step to get over.

>>>You cannot overestimate this bit. Every single dude quickly realized that men come in different sizes and shapes. Smaller dudes quickly figured out that they are not alone in the world, and that they were going to have some fun in life, too. Bigger dudes realized that while having a desirable endowment was a great thing, other dudes were equally big or even bigger, so the size issue ceased to be such an obsession to most guys. Very few guys thought that they can be assholes just on the account of their size.<<<


Guys knew back then you would never "out" them for playing around - so in some ways they were less afraid to try....

>>>The phrase used in those days was: Discretion is a matter of honor! This was a powerful statement, and no one I knew broke his word.<<<