Very true KD -

The gay / bi guys were not looking to date / marry / out the straight guy that just wants to get off -

It was about the sex.

The feeling was "neither of us act like Liberace so we must be straight" - so it was not threatening to their being "straight" - you were both just horny.

Also I think the fact you had seen many of the guys naked - in the dorms - in the showers - you were used to that - and it was a major first step to get over.

It was the need to get off - and the desire to do more than jack off.

With some it would only happen when we were drunk - others it would only to to a certain point - and in almost all cases it was never talked about - until you were ready for the next time.

Guys knew back then you would never "out" them for playing around - so in some ways they were less afraid to try....

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