[jonn3]

An interesting article about "straight" guys who justify the fact they have sex with guys.

Funny how they are talking about their reasons as older adults - and many of them are the same justifications we used as young kids...

"The Straight Men of the Rural Midwest Who Have Sex With Each Other"


https://melmagazine.com/the-straight...r-9a1eb5fc448e

[Mojavebottom]

This article is pretty well done although the sample is small. I am a long time out of the closet guy, I live in what many would consider a "red" area but really it is very libertarian and I give head to a number of straight men on a regular basis. They have sought me out for sexual reasons but in most cases we now do guy stuff together like shooting, fishing, reloading and even camping together. They have no desire to do me and that is fine. They do love getting their nut off with me however but don't feel the need to get married. A lot of my gay friends are horrified that I do this but until mister right cums along it works.

[jonn3]

Originally Posted by Mojavebottom

They have no desire to do me and that is fine. They do love getting their nut off with me however but don't feel the need to get married.

Personally I see nothing wrong with that. I do not see it as a one way deal - I get pleasure from sucking a guy off - and if he does not want to suck me off that is OK - I enjoyed sucking him.

And I like the fact that you have become "buddies" with some of them apart from the sex. I always enjoyed those relationships growing up - where we were friends but has sex as well. There were a few where I wish it had been a bit more emotional - but back then I was not ready for that either - and so we just had fun.

[Mojavebottom]

Yes, situations are different. When I was younger I has liaisons with older men and neither of us were ready for anything permanent but it worked out well for the time being. You just have to be honest with your friends and things will work out.