I'm very verbal ("Oh yah, just like that." "Harder, slam it in harder!") and like my tops verbal too ("Like that, bitch?" "Tell me you like my cock in your ass."). When I'm suckin' I like the top to be verbal too although its hard to reply with a hard cock fillin' my mouth.

Just wondering if other bottoms are verbal too and if their tops like it and...

If tops are verbal and their bottoms like it.

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I sort-of match what my top wants - if he's verbal, I egg him on and if not, then not. If he's being silent, I try a bit of verbal and see if he picks it up. But only a bit, because I'm there to please him not to freak him out.

In arranging a meeting, I ask if he's into verbal - but I also make clear that it's optional, or that I only want him to be himself and say what's natural. I don't do acting or roleplay, only role-reality.

I do fantasize about (but have not yet encountered) extreme verbal, call it mindfuck. For example, while pounding away and with no prompting from me, in all seriousness, the top would say things like "You want my cum? Alright, look me in the eye and say that you're a faggot and you -need- my cum soaking into your guts." And then I have to look at him and say it.

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not verbal here (mom taught me not to talk with my mouth full) and from my encounters never got into it the way who I was with did it. To me it usually just sounded like a comically bad porn, and even sometimes got a few giggles from me rather than any kind of 'arousal/enhancement'. Happy with taking direction/requests, and the occasional query/response etc

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I am not verbal during sex. Although a bit of it can be fun so much of it seems to be more about domination than sex - to me we are there to give each other pleasure -

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“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” ― Oscar Wilde

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in my teen days, any chatter was mostly communicating what was wanted & the, uhm... vocalizations of if going well. Most of the time we were just relatively quiet. Later a few times with a guy doing the 'dirty talk' etc, I'd be 'uhm, what did he say?' and then some question I'd be like 'am I really supposed to stop and discuss this?' Or he'd say something that got me giggling or outright laughing. It wasn't until I saw my first porn vid (mid20's) I got the idea of how it was supposed to go. Not that I'm slow, just it hardly ever happened., but dom/sub or bdsm stuff never caught my interest.

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I love having a guy talk nasty to me. It actually turns me on more when he's calling me a hot little cocksucker....or a slut...or a whore...he's always right with those

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I love calling my fuck buddies whores, sluts, cock suckers etc when I top. I like the same being done to me when I bottom. I love talking about his man pussy and how hard it will be getting fucked. I really do love a guy who will talk dirty whether he is on top or bottom.

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I am a bottom and I am verbal. Especially when I’m being watched. I ask him if he loves the way I suck his dick. Or if I’m being watched I ask if they wish I had my lips around his dick too. I used to complain when I am sucking a guy and he just lay there quiet like a dead corpse. Hello??? Am I sucking ok. U awake?
Even when I Jack off, I make noise not only w my lube but also some verbal jerk off talk.

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I love it when there is some verbal appreciation for what is going on - from both sides. When getting sucked I make sure he knows he is doing a good job and I am enjoying it. When I am sucking I tell him how good his cock tastes and feels in my mouth.

I trying not to sound like a bad porn video "ohh ohh you are so big" but I also want to make sure he knows I love cock - and right now I am loving his.

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Verbal as in making noises -- I like to do it when he's sucking me. Verbal as in talking - I love it when I am fucking him, especially when he protests, saying, "I'm in pain and you're talking so much!" It really turns me on and gives me more power to fuck him harder. Of course, he'd need to be a real bottom and enjoy it despite his protests.

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I actually have to think to be verbal. So much of my early sexual activity was in places where we needed to be quiet so as not to get caught that once I finally was on my own with no parents or roommates I had to try and make some noise so they would know I was enjoying it!

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