History: My name is Scott, I am a 45 years old 5'2 250 short chubby guy.

Last night I made contact with someone on a party line who seemed cool. He wanted money which I was used to doing. He came to my apartment and told me to clean up. I went into the washroom and came out for a towel and he had put his close on and was going thru my pants. I tried to stop hom but he punched my in the chest and ran out. I now have 2 broken ribs.

I don't look like most of you guys. I don't go to the gyms and all that. I'm basically a short fat fuck.

I need someone to tell/show me how a sff like myself can get someone else interested on me. My boyfriend of 16 years died recently and I now find myself very alone.

I know this is really isnt what this board is for but please I need some help.

Thanks

Scott

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I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your boyfriend; I can't imagine how hard that must be.

However, this can't possibly be a good place to look for another bf, can it? How did you meet your other? Perhaps there's a place to volunteer nearby where you can meet other men? Trying to find a partner here for more than an evening probably won't work, but good luck.

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bigshorty--

got to agree with matt, this isn't a good place to find a partner or long term relationship. dudes on here are just to get off with other dudes that are just looking to get off. on top of that most guys here (at least that i talk to) are cheating. which is great if you're looking for no strings fucking, but not good for a relationship.

i'm sure we all feel bad for your situation, but there are better places to look for partners.

just get on google and type in "gay dating" you'll get plenty of sites to explore to find guys looking to date.

hope it works out for you.

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Right now I' not really looking for a boyfriend.

Isn't there anyone out here thay would like to fuck around with a short chubby guy. I'm clean, very affectionate and a bottom.

Thats really what I'm looking for right now.

Please I am very lonely. I wont leave anymore messages.

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You seem like a sweet guy. If you don't waqnt to diet...accept yourself and your value as is. DON'T DEVALUE YOURSELF BY "PAYING FOR SEX". You don't need to do that, you need to connect with guys that appreciate chubbyguys and enjoy fucking them and being their friends as well.

I have a beautiful lover of some years. But as said before I am here to cheat.

My patner and I would love to throw you around and fuck your ass and mouth til you scream uncle". However I would need to meet you somewhere in order to do it.

The point is to put yourself in places and organizations where you will be appreciated. Join Bear groups and Chub organizations. Google for the Gay Big Men and Gay Bear sites as a start.

Be carfeful and once again "value" yourself and give yourself a chance.

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Bro, you have a whole bunch of dudes here that are giving you the same advice so think hard about taking it. You seem to be a nice guy who's hurting and feeling bad about himself. This ain't the place to get the healing and selfesteem you need.

You don't go to the hardware store to buy a book and you don't go to an fucking site for a relationship. There are lots of places to go for relationships. Once you get your head on striaght, come on back get some no-strings-attached fucking.

And, NO GAY GUY SHOULD EVER HAVE TO PAY FOR SEX!!!! This is one of the great things about being gay, everyone is horny! Ain't no "headaches" or getting in "the mood". We're all dudes and ready to fuck.

Just look around, there are guys here and on other sites that are into everything. Chubby, skinny, hairy, smooth, top, bttm, jock, fem, feet, CBT, nip play, jockstraps, panties, feet, groups, oral, anal, making out, on and on and on.

The final thing that's holding you up --- and I don't mean this to be rude, you do seem like nice guy -- you just come off and needy and sad. No guy really wants that. And the asshole husslers are going to smell it and take advantage of you. Hell, I've never been with a chuddy and I'd be happy to give you a ride, but you just seem so sad.

Get good with yourself. Find the guys that would be into a dude like you, like chubby and bear groups.

Above all, get the help you need.

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