a good blow job

danvilleman · #1 17th March 2005, 04:27 PM

okay gents . its time to tell what makes a good blow job. what techniques work on you.
dry or wet ?
fast or slow ?
gums or a little teeth ?
moustache or clean shaven ?
heavy work on the head or the shaft ?
tongue on the bottom ?
does the location make a difference ?
time to tell all !

CapitalUncut · #2 17th March 2005, 09:31 PM

I think you'll improve your chances of getting answers if you take a few moments to fill out your profile, since you're posing an intimate, soul-baring question.

AssMan · #3 21st March 2005, 11:01 AM

What I prefer is:

--Neither dry nor wet
--More slow than fast. In fact, having my whole dick in the guy's mouth for a few seconds at a time is often the best feeling of all.
--Tongue on the bottom
--Above all, give me variety. There's nothing more boring than 15 minutes of the exact same thing going on down there. Alternate between fast and slow and how far you go down on it. Stop and lick the underside for awhile or suck my balls. Surprise me.

What I do not like is:

--Teeth
--Razor stubble (why not just give me a handjob with sandpaper?)
--Drooling (if there's too much saliva, there's no friction)
--Hands. If the guy is skilled, using hands generally makes me cum faster than I want to. But most guys who use hands not only aren't skilled, they're really bad, so it's just taking away from the pleasure of feeling their mouth. This is especially true of the guys who feel the need to clamp their hand around the base of my dick while sucking. That may fulfill some porn-inspired fantasy for them, but if you're grabbing me with a kung fu grip, that's all I feel, not your mouth.
--Guys who only take 2 inches of my dick in their mouth at a time. You don't have to deep throat me, but I have 7 inches to work with, so let's pay attention to some of the rest of it.
--Super suction. Some guys think that sucking dick means acting like they're trying to suck an extra thick milkshake through a straw. Again, this may do something for you, but it does nothing for me.

GringoBi · #4 23rd March 2005, 12:22 AM

Moist(not wet), slow(although I have a hair trigger, hence my nickname for my cock "Trigger"), tongue on the bottom, work on the head(although deep throat is good too), variety, plenty of tongue and lip action(soft and gentle), two way action(more than one guy at a time) and clean shaven.

Definate no is teeth, facial hair/stubble, too much saliva(pre cum should take care of most lubrication plus pre cum tastes great), I agree the kung fu grip is definately out as well.

2bateup · #5 27th March 2005, 08:34 AM

I mostly agree with assman.
Except I love strong suction. I like to feel the head swell up in my cocksuckers mouth.
I also like some breaks and admiration. Pop off it and look at it, tell me how good it tastes, etc
I especially agree about no drooling. Don't like wet dripping balls.

Also: be patient, bring it to the edge and then back off, then start up again. I typically like to go an hour before delivering my load.

And lastly: location. I get really hot outside, in woods, or at night standing in my yard or sitting on my front porch

pamike · #6 6th April 2005, 07:14 AM

This is a great thread for a guy who is looking for his first cock to service. No stubble, no excessive saliva, no teeth, no strangulation of the cock, no rushing thru the act, and no failure to take the cock deep. I hope i got the important parts down. I have complete dentures and i hope guys wil like that, i've heard they do but also some guys i've chatted with don't seem to be impressed. I just hope i find good-natured and polite men and not jerks. I really want to do a good job and worship some nice cock. Is it okay to suck without a condom, and should i swallow their loads?

BlkGuy4WhtGuy · #7 6th April 2005, 08:58 PM

If you are going to take cum in your mouth it's best to swallow it... from the point of satisfying your partner and, suprisingly, health. To me, getting a blowjob from a guy who won't take it in his mouth or spits it out is kind of a letdown. I love to watch a guy gulp down my load and beg for more.

I know a lot of guys shy away from swallowing due to HIV fears. I've read in several place, however, that it is actually safer to swallow than to hold it in your mouth and spit. When you swallow, it's down the hatch, traveling through and to body parts that are designed to break down substances and filter out impurities. The mouth is a more fragile space. Sucking is pretty low risk whether you swallow, hold it, or spit it, but if you take a load of HIV+ cum you are much better off to swallow it down.

Do you guys agree?

BillyBoner · #8 14th April 2005, 04:37 PM

Nothing better than knowing the person handling your cock is crazy hot for it. Having the tip kissed amidst the licking, sucking, etc. is nice. Watching your cocksucker go after your precum with their tongue and make a long string is very hot. An occasional down to the balls and hold it there while squeezing it with their throat can bring me close to the edge. The proper use of hands is a part of it. And for those very skilled few who can bring me right to the edge so that a steady stream of precum flows into their mouth...AH!

And of course, the way they take your cum!

Teeth scratches suck
Strong suction make my cock hurt after and does not add to the overall pleasure

Throbbin_9 · #9 19th April 2005, 12:06 AM

gotta agree with most of the replies - -

like it slow - like the head worked on royally. like to edge and let my pre-cum flow. like to see variety in sucking, licking, and kissing my meat. like to see my cockhead suckled. love to see someone feasting on it. like to have my whole package entertained, including fondling and licking my hairy breeding sac. grip the base firmly and admire my curved tool swell and glisten. since i edge and leak lots of pre-cum, i love to see my cockhead getting frothy film of pre. i'll let you know when i'm ready to cum.

definitely don't like teeth or stubble.

i differ with some of the replies . . . when i'm lying down . . . i don't mind it wet, especially when a stud works it into my balls. don't mind because when my cock gets slathered up like good, it means that someone is really into my cock and soon may be riding it.

hairbe4r · #10 4th June 2005, 09:27 PM

How about a condom? Fact is, the nasties you can get from oral still exist.

I like a good cock, but it is just seriously hard to really trust someone with whom your relationship is very casual. Many times the guy doesn't know he's infected with something anyway.

I find, personally, over and over again, that oral w/ condom really turns people off.

I rarely get out on the scene considering that I am a bi MWM. BUT, if/when I just can't see doing w/out a cover now.

However, most of what you guys are describing would seem to be less enjoyable when getting sucked through the latex.

Just some thoughts.

BlkGuy4WhtGuy · #11 4th June 2005, 09:48 PM

I'm all for safety, but to me, oral sex with a condom is the stupidest form of sex imaginable. What makes oral sex feel good is the warmth, the moisture, the texture of the tongue and mouth. The feel of a mouth wrapped around latex sucking my dick is annoying and not in any way erotic. When a guy offers oral with a condom, I always say forget it. It's not worth the trouble. I'd rather get off with my hand than receive (or give) oral with a condom.

BillyBoner · #12 7th June 2005, 03:53 PM

NO SHIT! What a waste of time and good cock with a person who wants to suck you off with a rubber. Let them suck a plastic dildo.

Cocksucking is to be wet and personal. Those who have "expert" opinions on the risks, are not experts at all...just talkers!

lacruiser69 · #13 17th January 2006, 11:11 AM

Condoms suck!

I like to give and receive bj's.

When I receive one, I like it slow, not hurried. I like it wet, but not soaking wet. Dry doesn't slide enough for me, and too wet there's not enough friction.

I HATE to have my balls in someone's mouth, that really makes me uncomfortable. I do enjoy having them licked and played with. I enjoy having my ass played with/fingered while I'm being sucked. I dislike my head being sucked by itself, it's way too sensitive and actually feels uncomfortable. I dislike really fast bj's, and appreciate a guy who enjoys what he's doing.

Surprisingly, a lot of guys don't do a very good job at this, and I think they really don't enjoy doing the actual act, just enjoy thinking about it and the anticipation.

I especially LOVE to play outdoors, day or night. Hot springs, the parks, woods, hiking trails, etc. are all turn-ons for me.

When I give a BJ, I like to take my time, I love to suck a nice cock very slowly, going all the way down on the shaft, with my tongue on the underside. I like to cup his balls, and pull at them, sort of like a door knob, and sometimes making my hand act a little like a cock ring. I move my hands around, feeling his ass, sometimes scratching his buttocks as he approaches climax. I like to take breaks to catch my breath and let him settle down a bit, then start again.

I prefer guys who've showered in the last 24 hours, not stinky, but not squeaky-clean from the shower, either. I prefer a little bit of the musky smell and taste, just a bit.

I LOVE to suck a good cock.

I LOVE to get mine sucked by a great cocksucker!

Damn, I'm getting hard thinking about this! :-)

loadeater · #14 17th January 2006, 12:55 PM

i've been sucking cock for over 25 years, mostly at ABS thru gloryholes. i really get into sucking a guy deep. there aren't too many guys that i haven't been able to deep throat, but i love to take a thick cook deep, then stretch my tongue out and lick his balls as i'm sucking him off. drives some men wild. i agree with the other post, never use your hands. most women do that. i especially don't like when a guy will zip up and say he'll catch me later. not. if he doesn't want to give me his load then, i'm not going to take it later. i LOVE when a guy grabs my head and fucks my throat. i use to not like this, but lately i'm turned onto this.

TightAsThong · #15 26th January 2006, 10:41 PM

I like giving better then getting but still like the thread so here goes.
Every guy is different,so I like getting some kind of verbal response while giving head.
Tell me what to do ,how you like it,what to do differently and I will,but will always be into it.
If I have a cock in my mouth,Iam determined to be the best cocksucker and want to be told so.
I might not be able to take the entire thing in my mouth,but do try!