I have been fuck only a few times and I loved it.When I`m feeling kinky(which is all the time) I love to fuck myself with toys,fruit,anything and everything.Well I started to notice that my hole as become loose and sloppy.I was getting fucked the other day at a book store by a guy with a huge cock and my hole felt to loose.Is there anything I can do to get it back to the tight hole I once had?.

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Yeah,

lay off the big dicks for a while. It will tighten back up.

Been there , done that.

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gawd I hate those assholes with puffy asslips... just not right when you can slide your hand in nearly up to your elbow -- without any grease.

You might talk to a surgeon about having a drawsting put into your hole.

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I don't think it's big dicks making you loose and sloppy, it's all that other stuff you're cramming up your ass. Anything and everything? Like orange traffic cones? Lay off all the stuff bigger than a good sized dick and I think you'll be OK.

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How do you define a loose asshole? Can you tense your asshole muscles and clamp around an average sized dick?

I find that most experienced bottoms have almost voluntary control over their asshole muscles and also toughened skin around the opening, which makes it easy to penetrate them. This might feel like a loose asshole (compared to a tense virgin asshole), but I have never met a bottom who could not clamp down on my dick by tensing his muscles.

I've read the medical literature about guys who have torn their asshole muscles so that they can't close them, but I suspect this is a rare problem.

Personally, I like an easy to get in hole. Being able to plunge my dick right in with just a little bit of spit on the condom is very sexy. Only experienced bottoms can enjoy this without screaming out in pain.

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"I find that most experienced bottoms have almost voluntary control over their asshole muscles and also toughened skin around the opening, which makes it easy to penetrate them."

That voluntary control can only last for a few moments. It is very tiring on those muscles. Once the fucking gets going, the bottom will start to relax and if the top withdraws for a moment, you can actually see the hole remain dilated like pussy lips.

All this rubbing toughen the skin around the opening but this skin is much darker than a virgin's pink hole. So it's not easy to get away with the coy "I have been fuck only a few times". Any top worth his salt can tell just by looking and confirm it with penetration. All those men who had you before already left their marks, so to speak.

Still a coy white lie is modus operandi, usually forgiven though confessions later when caught out by the top makes for some fun domination games. Some guys just enjoy making you confess your dirty secrets

Abstaining from penetration sex for a month or so will usually tighten it up and even lighten up the dark ring. Still it's no fooling anybody.

"Personally, I like an easy to get in hole. Being able to plunge my dick right in with just a little bit of spit on the condom is very sexy. Only experienced bottoms can enjoy this without screaming out in pain."

Ahem...gay or straight sex, they all want it virgin tight You're a very rare exception. Better yet if there's pain of penetration, faked it if you have to. Gay or straight, the mating instinct still imprint the domination streak in a hot blooded male- he wants you to acknowledge his male organ's penetration into your body by showing pain. No pain means a whoring slut taking too many male organs and he is not exclusive.

Gay or straight, it is still sex after all, governed by millions of years of built-in instincts that throw all political correctness aside once 2 humans decide to mate Just enjoy it.

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