See about going out for a few beers, and bring him to an abs with viewing booths. Then, if he likes it, take him to a booth where there is a glory hole, and have him try that, but you would be on the other side of the hole to blow him. You can reveal it later to him, especially if he says he liked it. That was how I started. A gay friend of mine lured me in that way. He told me about the holes, and what happens, so I tried it, and found out later that it was him. Ever since then, I have not given it a second thought. I love a BJ from a guy, and I love giving them. What ever you do, don't be pushy, just provide the right atmosphere, and let him try comming to you. Plus, if you stay low key after words, he more than likely will come back for more knowing it is discreet. What ever you do, do not push the issue.

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Thanks, bbsckbottom!

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i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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My best friend and chatted about sex, porn, etc for hours a few weeks ago.

He has thought about a 3 some with my wife, i was stunned. Also he was stroking and hard most of the time we were chatting, asked if he could send another pic, he said sure and sent me one of him hard right then.

i saw it...WOW! He is thicker than I remember. He wanted to get my opinion about his cock pic, i didn't know what to say...wanted to be honest, but afraid. I was blunt, said, "looks amazing and would like to suck it." I crapped my pants that i actually blurted that out.

He wasn't grossed out or upset, he said, "i guess i should say thank you." I apologized and said don't want to upset you...he said, "don't worry, it's cool."

he keeps telling me how he is so fucking horny over and over again recently, especially since he is hanging out with woman he has befriended and zero action from it.

I still think deep in the back of his mind, he doesn't want to admit it, but he has thought about me blowing him and he is just repressing it.

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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If he is telling you he is "so fucking horny over and over again" then he is telling you he wants you to do something about it. Try the "if you tell me that one more time I am going to have to take care of you" and see what he says. If he bites go for it! If he doesn't play it off like you are tired of hearing about his blue balls. Nothing ventured?

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I kinda think he is no longer "repressing it." What more do you want? For the guy to push you onto your knees and force you to blow him? Hello! Time to just go for it.

Keith

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Not for the newbie, but I know a few "I'm strictly straight"s who only took a slight push to kneel and blow. Some just like to be dominated.

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If he has no interest in you sucking him he would not be sending you pictures of his cock hard...

It is now just the matter of having the courage for one of you to actually make the first move...

I am a TOTAL chicken at making the first move - but if I had a buddy being that open I think even I would dare make the move!

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You've already seen him hard in the past...or more? He's bi as well.

Clear signal he wants some action. Go for it at the next opportunity.

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Just chatted again with him today, exchanged more cock pics.

i mentioned a fantasy of mine is share a cock with my wife, her and I blowing a cock/kissing with it in between us. He said sounds hot! Then I said I had thought about the cock being his, he said hot!

I EVEN sent him a gay video of a dude blowing his married buddy, amateur, one guy was standing on sofa, humping the other's face. He wasn't grossed out, said looks difficult to pull off!

fuck i wanna blow him sooooo bad!

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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Jesus, if you are still waiting, forget it. Send me the picture of his cock and his phone number. The guy is going to end up going elsewhere anyhow to get his needs handled as you continue to drag your feet.

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Agreed Grumps! He can come to me. I'd be happy to oblige.

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*****UPDATE******

LOL, he lives 3 hours away from me. We see each other MAYBE 3-4 times a year and we both have kids.

He is driving up and asked me when we would be alone! If he even gives a remote hint, I'm going for it.
He reminded me again how he is sick of jerking off and needs to fool around REALLY badly.

I'm still shocked that he liked and was impressed with my cock pic due to it's rigidness and how it stand rather straight up.

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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TOTAL DISAPPOINTMENT!

He acted strangely, caught him rubbin' his jeans on my sofa looking at straight porn and when i came down into the room; he freaked and stopped immediately.

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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We chatted days after he came up and stayed the night and nothing happened. He agreed that he wanted to at least have us both jerk off in front of each other. He also wants to stroke my cock and have me stroke his. I mentioned me giving him a blowjob, he said we can work up to that!!!!

I think he wants me to suck him sooooo bad, but he is nervous to either ask or have me do it AND it being so hot it blows his mind!

I even said, well if we jerk off where are we gonna cum? I said I usually shoot a lot and all over the place. He said he could aim in TP. I said i thought I was gonna see you get off? I suggested, maybe right before you shoot your load, you shove your aching cock into my mouth? He didn't say yes or no, but he did agree that getting a bj and unloading into a hungry mouth was hot!!!

I think it's a matter of time now..I will keep you posted!

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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My buddy is coming up for 3 days at least...so hoping to finally get some action.

He said after insisting so many times that he only wants me to JERK HIM OFF, that he is not a selfish and of course would return the favor! I asked him totally blunt question after he has admitted that he is fascinated with seeing dicks,
watching guys get hard,
and not really hot for seeing a pussy
(he loves TITS and the entire female body).

i said ever thought about sucking cock, he said not really interested in that, but absolutely loves getting sucked. He also said something intriguing, "appears friends or guys experimenting with each is more common than i thought, seen many things about it on the NET."

I'll take whatever I can get from him.

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I'm 33yo,Discreet,clean,BiMarried.
i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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