So maybe he just needs to warm up and once started "he just couldn't control himself" and you can blow him. Once he is hard and getting all the attention, the big head will start to see things the little head's way.

On a more negative note maybe he is just a total cock teaser and is getting off on his power over you versus the prospect of a blowjob? You won't know for sure but there are other cocks out there more accessible and MUCH more willing. It seems like you have spent an awful lot of time and energy obsessing over this guy. Just some thoughts.

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I never knew he was an option until the pics got sent last year. He resent me and sent a new one. Last time he was up, too many people around, but mentioned to me "let's plan it!" I sent him another short gay amateur face fuckin scene, said "hope i didn't gross you out." he said, "not at all." any straight man would say yuck or don't send me that again!

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i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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This has been going on for seven months. Even if he had been interested some point in the past, he is now just a cock teaser. Get your head out of his ass, and start looking for some available dick. If he calls, telling him you "are going out to get some". If he really wants you, he'll offer. If not, HE IS NOT INTERESTED, he is just playing bait the gay guy.

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Not sure which is more startling: that this guy still hasn't gotten into his friends pants, or that you know how many months he has been trying!

I'm with you: next!

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Yeah, I hate to break it to you but I agree with everyone else here: at this point he's more interested in jerking off to turning you on than he is to actually getting anything out of you.

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There is little doubt that the 'str8 dude' is on a power trip. There are loads of guys out there who get a huge ego boost by discovering that you want something and that they may be in a position to deny you that... It really does not have to be sex at all.

I am all for trying and NOT giving up easily. But there is a limit to how far anyone should really go. Feeding his ego does no one any good. Even the guy who seems to be enjoying denying it, is actually getting a totally wrong message, too.

More likely than not, his next victim will simply shrug with his shoulders and move on to the next perfectly willing guy who'll be more than happy to trade off a solitary jerk for a good, hot mouth...

KD

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I thought since he has found a recent woman to date that he would not want to fool around. He reminded me that we have talked about it so much and why not have even more fun!!!

If we didn't live 3 hours away from each other, I think this would happen sooner.

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i love NUTS too...sucking, lickin, fondling, and tuggin 'em! low Hangers, trimmed or Big balls are all HOT TO me. Willing to try kissin, rimmin, VERS, face fucking, , 69, suckin thru a gloryhole, and pop my cherry.

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Had a camp counselor roommate once for a summer working at a camp... he was hung like a horse and liked to hang out naked in our room. Used to take off his clothes as soon as he got to the room. Would talk about how hard it was for him to be away from his girlfriend. Once he took off all his clothes and walked around the bed, making the upper bunk while I was in the lower one. He suddenly asked me if I was enjoying the show. I was, and I wanted to blow him, but I didn't trust him, so I didn't. I've thought about it since, and I wonder if I should just have said, "If you want a blowjob, you're going to have to ask nicely" or something like that. He went back to his girlfriend after the summer, then married someone else. He's a famous symphony and opera conductor, and he's on TV all the time. Still looks young and handsome, though he's aged. I can't watch him conduct without thinking about that other baton that I know is underneath his tux. But he wanted attention and adoration more than he wanted actual sex, and if we had had sex, I'm sure it would have been a one-time thing.

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Peter -

It is so frustrating - thinking of the times that might have been if you or the other guy had just been braver...

So many missed opportunities - especially younger.

:-(

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Let me guess: Michael Tilson Thomas?

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After over 2 years since the last time my best friend and I had a GUY'S ONLY WEEKEND TRIP, we are leaving this Friday for 2 nights and 3 days!!! He said months ago, I really REALLY need this weekend.

He said he is bringing porn and wants to have more fun. He said last time jerking off in front of me was such an awesome, relaxing and liberating feeling. He agreed to us jerkin each other off, but I think MAYBE with some beer he may let me do more. He has said my cock pics recently are hot and after sending 2 gay BJ FACE FUCKING VIDEOS, he was not grossed!

I will give a full report next week.

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Good Luck!

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Not to put any pressure on you or anything, but if you don't get any further this weekend, we're revoking your membership to the world of Cruisers! Go for it and make sure to take mental notes to share later!

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Ok, he initiated it. He was also more comfortable and harder than I was. Maybe because I was timid to go right at his cock. His cock was smaller than he boasted about, but looked great. I loved that it was brown ( he is Sicilian and Polish...looks Italian!), nice head and good thickness, but his balls are much smaller and quite hairy! We were sitting on the edge of our beds facing each other totally naked looking at each other's dicks. I really loved stroking his and worked his balls. I hope I did a good job. I'm going to chat with him in the next few days and get his honest reflective thoughts of our weekend.

The problem was when he reached to jerk me off he was a lot rougher pulling and tugging on my pole. This is right in the first few minutes of us playing. He jerked off for almost 90 minutes before he dribbled out his load into a tissue. My cock was fuckin raw and my forearms were sore from pulling my own pecker. I said no wonder your ex-gf said she got lockjaw from blowing you, you last forever!

This happened Friday night and it is now Monday morning and my forearms are still SORE from his marathon stroke session. But I do love that he got naked and threw on porn and said come on over and wanted us to tug and stroke each other's hard dicks. I never really got rock hard because he was too rough and his porn does nothing for me.

I really wish I had more to report, but we talked about anal with women and he said anal was disgusting and he looked dead serious. I'm going to be seeing him in the next 4-6 weeks again and we will have talked by then see if he wants more from my cock or mouth.

thanks for listening.

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Was this worth a 14 month build up?

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