I've never been in a situation where a woman has given me a blow job, so I can't comment on the respective performance. Anyway, it's always dangerous to generalise.

I've had some fanbtastic, sensual, prolonged BJs from guys, and some rough ones where they forget to keep their teeth out of the way. I don't often have a BJ to climax, as I always like it first before I go on to fuck a guy.

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Cocksucking is a skill and like any skill, anyone can learn it. Anyone can improve upon it, too.

The difference I would suggest is whether there is a desire to get that cock to cum from head or to cum some other way, for example by fucking. I know I suck a cock in a very different way when I intend for the guy to blow his load down my throat as opposed to when I'm trying to get him hard enough to fuck me. The skills are the same, but the way one uses those skills are different since working a dick to get it hard enough to fuck you requires you to know when to stop. Otherwise, that load gets 'wasted' down your throat. Or truly wasted onto the floor.

Maybe the real issue is who desires to taste cum and who is less likely to enjoy that pleasure. I am guessing that a gay guy is far more likely to be cum hungry than most any woman or curious straight guy. But I could be wrong (and I'd love to find out).

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My experience is that a blowjob is a matter of chemistry. I've known guys who thought I gave the best blow job in the world whiile other guys can't bust a nut in my mouth - go figure!

The best blow jobs I've ever had have been by women but on balance (maybe on average) men give the best blowjobs. I've known a lot of women who wouldn't do it but the few that would really, really did! I'd say in my opinion for a random blowjob I'll take man.

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I haven't gotten nearly enough bjs - but from my experience, the best I ever got was from a man. My first gf got pretty good the more she did it. For me the key is how far they can take it. Most women never seem to even try to get much more than the head. The guy took my whole cock and paused - then went up an down a bit, then took it all. After about the 3rd time I shot my load!

On an odd side note... for some reason I like watching women suck more than men when I watch porn. Not sure why...

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I'm a tv/cd and i think we give the best head

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I say we guys give the best blowjobs, hands down! Most women suck cock to get something...money, security, approval, love. Consequently, they don't really get very good at it and, like hot4dick said, most women just seem to get only the head in their mouth. We cock-sucking guys, on the other hand, LOVE sucking cock and, for us, it is truely a "labor of love!" I'll use myself as an example as I have been loving and sucking cocks for nearly 40 years, and have enjoyed performing oral sex for hundreds of different men in that time. I simply ADORE the male genitalia and will not hesitate to do anything I can to give a man pleasure. I don't even care who the guy is or what he looks like, either! I just LOVE sucking, licking, kissing, fondling and otherwise loving cocks and ANY cock will do, too! And I have learned to take the entire length of all but the biggest cocks into my loving mouth! I try to make it very clear that I'm ready and eager to give a guy the oral pleasure that most guys crave if he's simply willing to let me get the pleasure that I crave by putting my mouth on his penis! Many guys have told me that they've had their most intense orgasms ever after they'd cum in my mouth and many have remarked that it was soooo hot because they could sense I really loved sucking them. Women just don't do that!

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I've never been sucked by a woman nor do I ever want to. I fully agree that of all the guys who have sucked me, the greatest pleasure came from those who actually love doing it. When I sense that the guy does it out of duty or reciprocity, I don't cum well with full force. But when I see him really enjoying, then I pound into his mouth and throw my load in. That's really glorious.

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Damn vs120tgrl - I would LOVE to find out!

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Looks like I am going to be the sole voter for women here. Although I am pretty much strictly "bottom" now and rarely get sucked anymore at one time I did and I always felt women were better. Women were softer and more gentle with it and have fuller softer lips. Men just seem to want to grab it, tighten their lips around it and basically jack you off with their mouth. Now I know a lot of you will say you don`t do it like that but we were just suppose to "generalize" here. I have been told by many men that I "suck cock like a woman" and I personally find that to be a compliment regardless of how they ment it.

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This is a interesting question. Watching porn gives you the idea that women really love sucking cock. And we've all seen the actress that really knows how to make love to a cock. However I've noticed that many porn actresses are what I call 'lazy cocksuckers' meaning hold onto it and just work the head and not the shaft. Then of course we all wish our GF's/wives woud suck as good as porn actresses do but how can you 'train' a GF or wife to suck cock.
Now not all of us can watch lesbians enjoying a pussy but man, to watch them in porn(!!). Lesbians tend to 'make love' to a pussy where we men just eat away.
So I think since cocks know how good being sucked feels, cocks know what and how to suck another cock like a lesbian knows how it feels to eat pussy.
In a arcade or other public place, I especially like those rare guys that know how to suck a cock and make it cum in a minute or less!!!

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