I cannot believe its been so long since I posted this. I also can't believe that I never posted a follow up to the original post. I have bottomed a number of times but not as much as I would like and still do want to more. The first few times were a bit awkward and not enjoyable to me at all. I think that this was because I was with guys that weren't experienced enough and I was nervous about someone fucking me. I got some toys soon after the first couple of tried and got use to having things in my ass and it really made it easier for me with guys. I also learned very early that getting clean is a must, met up with a guy that I thought just wanted me to suck his cock but ended up he wanted to fuck as well soon he was going at it and then I got the smell of shit and he pulled out and ran to the bathroom I was so embarrassed but I think he was more. I tried to hook up with him other times with promise that I would spotless clean but never happened. So now I make sure that I have douched and even use a dildo to make sure that I am very clean before I go out or have someone over. Overall I have had a great time being a bottom and really love the feel of a nice cock. I hope that I can continue doing it for a long time.

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Thanks for the update - glad to know you are still here and got to try bottoming.

I am no expert - but I do think it takes time to get past the mental barriers we have due to upbringing and society. I remember being more nervous about the fact that sucking dick in my mind I could "justify" as just being horny young men. However getting fucked - there was no denying it - that was gay sex. It was not easy making that step.


Very embarrassing - but not uncommon. As others have said "shit happens" and when doing anal it is going to occur at some point. Glad you learned from it - when we were first trying anal I had never heard of douching.

It is great you gave it a try and are enjoying it!

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