I have deceided that I want to try and bottom, lately I have been getting hard just thinking about a guy fucking my virgin ass. But I have a few questions for you guys that bottom,

Should I try some butt plugs or other anal toys to train my ass a little before I try a real cock?

I am better to find a smaller guy for my first bottom experience or am I better just to find a good top?

Do I really need to douch or is just a good scrubing enough to insure a clean enough ass?

Is there a position that is better for a first timer, I have read that on top is best so that I can control the pace a little better?

and any other information you guys might have will be of great help?

Thanks in advance for any help.

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i would recommend using a dildo or something just to see what it feels like, but realize there is a big difference between a dildo and a real cock. For me, the size was never that big of a problem, just make sure you are lubbed up. I also prefer to start on top, so I can control how deep he goes in the beginning. I have been fucking a guy with a 9+ inch cock for a few years, and it is good. At first, he would enter me from behind, but that hurt. It got a lot better when I started on top.

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I have been fucking bottoms for years. It's gross when after a terrific session, you pull your cock out and find faeces stains on the condom. So empty the bowels and douch the hole well. For a first-timer, it is preferable to have an experienced top, who knows how to start slow and work up the rhythm and excitement gradually. In my younger days, I used to straight away get into either the doggy or missionary position and jab the bottoms, often causing them much pain. Now I know they have more control if they start being on top, and lead the pace. When they get into a comfortable rhythm, I take over, roll into missionary position and start thrusting. If they hurt, I slow down and stimulate their nipples or cock, or roll up into a sitting position, hug the guy tight and kiss him deep while having my cock still up his ass, thrusting slightly. When he's ready again for the last leg, I put him down on his back and do the thrusting. By now, most bottoms would have no resistance, and pain becomes pleasure as both go to a climax.

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Yes well put by Bago. Clean out the hole with an enema or douche to give more room for that cock and you feel it better. I as a bottom like to get my b/f hard and mount his cock as he lays on his back so I can control the rhythm. Slowly take that mushroom head into the sphinter and slowly press down . Once he is totally inside and comfortable I know I am open and ready so we can roll over and now enjoy all asoects of real fucking. Like the doggystyle and missionary with my legs up on his shoulders so we can kiss. Then get the bodies in motion and in rhythm till we cum together. Once you get it down you will love it forever.

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Thanks for all the answers for my questions. Looks like I will have to find some sort of enema kit to get really clean before I try my first. Is there a lube that you guys like better for anal? I have used K-Y for jerking but it seems to dry our pretty fast. Thanks again for all the sugestions

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KY is horrible. It dries up fast and I think the whole idea is to make you use more and more of the stuff. I like to use something a bit more controversial -- massage oil. I like nothing better than to smear his cleaned hole with fragrant oil and play with it with my fingers, making him moan with pleasure, before fucking him. I have read that oil can dissolve the rubber condom, but every time I have noticed the condom clearly intact even after a terrific and prolonged fuck session.

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No special tools needed just buy an enema bottle at your local drug store and some baby oil or massage oil there. I too have had no problems with guys having their condoms fall apart from the oil. Be sure to try all different positions too to see what feels right for you. I love a good ass pounding as much as sucking cocks. You will too

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In regards to the lubricant, I would recommend one of the silicone based ones. They are more durable, a little spit and they slick back up. In regards to massage oils, it is petroleum products that pose a danger with condom durability. While they will not dissolve away the condom, they can weaken it to the point of breakage. Check the ingredients. I would advise staying away from petroleum based products. Luckily better massage oils do not contain petroleum.

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Thanks again for all the help. I have gotten some silicone lube which seems like the best for anal and now just need to get some sort of enema kit to clean up with. Then I have to find a nice gentle top to break me in. When I finally get my first I will post and let you all know how it went.
Thanks again

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I am sure it is different for everyone - but don't make a final judgment based on your first time.

The stories on line all make it sound like instantly you will love it - but it can take a bit of getting used to and the first time can hurt.

But keep an open mind it can be very exciting and the feeling can be intense.

Good Luck!

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Agree with this. As a young man, I hated it, and it hurt so much every time somebody penetrated me. Then I began to get the hang of it. But then as I grew a bit older, I only loved to fuck cute little twinks, and that has become my staple until now. But I can still enjoy being fucked by big handsome men, though I find very few who can make me relaxed enough to take in the cock.

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when I was younger I was overactive as a twink and only enjoyed oral and anal penetration from older guys. The thrill and feel are never forgotten but want to add that I loved the feel of carrying my lovers seed in me and keeping my undies wet. Kissing and fondling is so nice too after your hole has been filled. Consider the aftermath feelings and behavior and how he treats you

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I was way to sacred of people finding out to be overactive like Kellboi - never did anything with an older guy but in some ways I wish I had - as both me and my buddies did not know what to do there was a lot of trial and error - might have been easier with someone who knew what they were doing -

But I will agree with Kellboi - back then we dared do it bareback and there was something special about knowing you had your best friends cum inside of you...

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That is another part of anal that I really do want to feel is a guy shooting a hot load in my ass and how my ass will feel as it leaks out. But with all the chances for disease it will have to be someone that I know has a clean bill of health.

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Yes we have to be careful these days about disease so if your lover uses a condom tell him to empty it all over your ass and spread the cum with your hands all over you pubic area as well as hips and thighs. It will dry quickly and then dress. The odor or smell is something you will be aware of and guys close by may pick up on.Think of it as cologne or aftershave cause it can have the same effect. You will find yourself also acting a bit more aggressive and horny after a short while. Well good luck

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