I am wondering how you guys deep throat large cocks. Whenever I try my gag reflex takes over and I can't take it all. I really want to be able to take large cocks cocks all the way down. So do you guys have any suggestions for me so that I can deep throat big cocks? Would some lube of some sort help? Or is it just going to take lots and lots of pratice?

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I used to get together with a guy who gave great deep throat so after one especially good session I asked him how he was able to take me so easily. He said that when he first started out he really had a hard time with gagging but that he discovered that if he pressed on his neck right under his jaw that the slight pain distracted him from gagging and after a number of times of doing this that he didn't feel like gagging even when he didn't do it.

I haven't tried this and don't intend to so let us know how it works for you. It kind of makes sense since one way to distract yourself from pain is to press real hard on the web of skin between your thumb & forefinger. I have tried that and it works for me. The theory is that your brain can only process so many inputs at once so if you introduce a second the first isn't so strong. Or something like that.

That guy moved away and I found someone else who was even better but I haven't asked him how he learned.

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Deepthroating is all fine and good. It is also slightly overrated. I enjoy a guy who deepthroats as much as the next dude. But I enjoy dude coping with my dick and gagging on it even more.

Technique is awesome. But even the best technique is useless if the dude on his knees does not show some enthusiasm, too.

My 2 cents here. Suck the way you like to suck, and be genuine about it. Do whatever you can to please the guy in front of you, and if he knows that, you are as good as it gets...

KD

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Thanks for the advise guys. I have never had any complaints about my sucking (but who complains when you have there cock in your mouth), but just feel like I am missing out by not being able to deepthroat a big cock. I also just want to see what it feels like to have a large cock slide down my throat.

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Hey, just saw this thread yesterday and found it useful today. For the most part I agree with KD66, it's all about enthusiasm, and technique doesn't depend on deep throating. But tonight I was faced with (ie, it was pushed up against my face) a 7.5" better-than -average girth hard-on and at one point I had a great desire to swallow it all the way in addition to the talented tonguing and mouth work I was giving. I tried the technique that Pike's suckbud described and it worked. I liked the feeling of his mushroom head sliding way down my throat for a while, and his moaning when I did it made me think it was worth the trouble. Need to check this section more often...

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Technique has its merits, too. This is what differentiates great cock suckers from the willing & good ones. I tend to go back more often to the dudes who know their stuff really well than to the dudes who may be even hotter but are clumsy. My point here is that no matter how good the technique may be, a dude still needs to be willing and enthusiastic for the benefits of his technique to kick in...

KD

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Very true. I have always loved sucking cock right from the first time - I get pleasure from his cock in my mouth. And I have known more than a few guys who may have GF/BF but still sometimes just want a blow job from someone who ENJOYS doing it - rather than the mechanical ones who go through the motions.

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I think my desire here for being able to deep through is to get it all the in and not gag. It can be only 6", but when he's fucking your face, I don't want to gag.

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It will really help once you more used to it and are comfortable enough to relax - that will help a lot.

As far as I know there is no way to "turn off" the gag reflex - it is there to keep us from choking to death so I am not sure I would want to never gag!

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Poppers keep me from gagging and increases my desire.

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I never heard of poppers dulling the gag reflex. Generally didn't like poppers effect on me (headache+) but might try that if an opportunity pops up.

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Pops up????

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Concerning poppers, try to find Amsterdam brand, my personal favorite. Also, any of the PWD poppers are good. I never get a headache from the quality stuff. Enjoy.

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I think a lot of the appeal of deep throat is psychological -

In terms of pleasure I find a lot of tongue action to the head gives the best feeling.

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It's all good. The long dong guys love my full deep throat as much as I love giving. Slow and passionate are the key. Herb and popper help turn me on.

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