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Arrive BKK late on Friday night...tired of bar scene .....logged onto gay.com ...lots of money boys but not interested. Woke 9.30 am Sat and fired up GayRomeo. Amazed at number of hits I got at that time...and by 11 am met with cute 19 y.o. who enthousiastically jumped into bed & enjoyed a double cum session with me. Leaving a few hours later he refused even the taxi fare... asking only to see me again next time I'm in BKK. Restored both my ego and my faith in Thai youth not all being in it for the money !

Yes, it can be pretty good. You have to sort through a lot of Filippino and Indonesian money boys, though, and the occasional stray African.

Do you think it's rude to ask if someone is a moneyboy on Gayromeo?

You can always put in your description - "no money boys pls". Will certainly weed out most.

I dont exclude "moneyboys" as there are some really nice guys out there who enjoy the sex and have a great time with you, but need a little financial support...as opposed to prostititutes who make a living from it and only care about the $$$.

So I never chat on-line with anyone who put anything in their description about payment, (or massage service etc.) Also if they start off the chat mentioning money they're out. .....but if we get as far as agreeing to meet, and I have any doubts I usually say...."I hope you dont mind me asking, but r u moneyboy?" The answer is anything from "NO" to "can you pay me taxi fare?", to "up to you" to a straight $ figure. You can then decide, but if any requests come post the event I make it clear that was not the deal, so no.

I find in Thailand the issue of a "gift" or "help" is considered normal , where as in other asian countries there's quite a line to cross if money is involved.

/cont. A good example. In Singapore this weekend on gay.com I saw a hot body pic of 20 y.o. and approached. He chatted very nicely, asked to see my face pic and was keen to meet. I asked the "money" question, and he asked if I could fund the taxi fare only, so I agreed. An hour later I met him in Raffles City shopping...absolutley stunning handsome guy...told me half chn half Nepalese.......had a great session with him...really enthousiatic kisser (which I love...deep tongue stuff), rimmed, 69 the works. Only prob we were both tops.....anyway he was so nice...and very horny, I let him f**k me which he did enthousiastically, cuming (with condom) inside me quite quickly. Turns out he is "bi" has a girl friend but only gets to have sex with her once a week...and happy to fulfil his urges with guys at other times. I certainly dont begrudge S$30 to enjoy quality time with such a lovely young man.

I've found gayromeo to be really good. On a trip this month to the following places, I met young, friendly, non-MB types on gayromeo in: Bali, Helsinki, Tallinn, Riga, Vilnius, Frankfurt, and Mexico City.
First used it in Istanbul last year, and it really was great. I did run into several MBs on Gayromeo in Bali, but otherwise I think it's quite good.

i was always wary of sites like gayromeo or gaydar - feels still abit strange to me - so i mainly lurk and send a stray compliment now n then.

however i hook up with two great guys this weekend in bkk - completely unexpected n good. my 1st (n 2nd) hook ups ever.

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He is a massage boy, but I have not used his service.

-- If what he writes is true then he could give one quite a massage - ha!
- I knew that someone here would have some MORE info. about him; is there anything else that you - or anyone else - can add: name, contact address/number, fees, etc. etc.?
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I would not presume to give such information without the young man's permission.

I suggest you contact him on gayromeo if you are interested. He will reply, if he is interested.

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when someone is a mb on gayromeo .. they write 55555+ .. what does this mean exactly?

Thai for 5 is ha...... so I guess its hahahaa

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I don't think that means they're a money boy or not

Well unless i was horribly mistaken, they flat out said they were MBs

So everyone who uses 55555 on gayromeo for Thailand is a money boy? That's what you're saying

5=fun .....55555=fun fun fun fun fun

"So everyone who uses 55555 on gayromeo for Thailand is a money boy? That's what you're saying"

well, i dont know so that's why i'm asking. but in my particular case, the 2 guys who said they were mbs used 55555 so i figured (wrongly i supposed now) that there's a connection between the two..

No connection between money boys and the term 55555+. It seems means LOL or hahaha, based on the pronunciation of the number "5" in Thai as "ha".

I'm preparing for my next trip to Bangkok at end of June. I have met a lot of guys on gayromeo who seem interested in meeting. This sure seems better than the aggravation of saunas (other than maybe Babylon). I plan to be generous in offering taxi fare (I don't want anyone to incur any cost to meet me)--but have not brought this up with anyone yet. I plan to tell them not to worry about any transportation costs (I'll cover that). My only problem is narrowing down the number of guys--and I'll feel bad about ignoring some of them. I'm starting to realize that the sauna scene is just misery and a waste of time (except maybe Babylon). I'm really trying to meet a high-quality guy (hopefully a rich Chinese or one from a rich family) but those seem non-existent on gayromeo. One person told me that someone like that will NOT be interested in anyone other than another young person.

Well, I'd disagree with that person. There are plenty of upper class guys on Gay Romeo, and many of them are interested in meeting foreigners. But only very few will be interested in meeting people 20-30+ years their seniors.

Of course, I haven't paid enough attention to have any idea of wantasian's age, but I'd have to agree with icon re: "hi so" Thai Chinese on age issues.

What I have found interesting is that on three occasions I've met just such young men- twice in China and once in Indonesia. Each time the young gentleman was the deeply closeted son of a rich Chinese family who was heading towards the expected marriage "for the culture" and horny has hell for a mature (though not quite ancient by farang in Thailand) standards. Their boarding school English and comfort level at very good hotels made their stories quite plausible. Gay Romeo was not the medium, though, but rather SilverD. The latter has also been the source of my most memorable non-commercial experiences in any country.

I seem to have less success with Gay Romeo than many report. I frankly wouldn't mind an up front moneyboy here and there as long as the, um, outcome, was as good as the build up. Someone must have a better amulet than I have.

I'm 48, and it seems that the overwhelming majority of Thai on gayromeo are not looking for anyone over 50. I narrowed my search to to other guys "searching my age" (there is a box to click for that) and noticed that most limit it to age 50.

I tried silverdaddies briefly and did meet one really high-quality Chinese Thai (good-looking and nerdy, which I like). The problem was that he was in constant contact with LOTS of older farang (most of whom spent a lot of time in Thailand). I also wonder if Thai on silverdaddies are looking for heavy and/or older-than-55 guys.

The Thai on gayromeo all seem to be "studying" (and usually things like "marketing") or are looking for work, or work in low-paying jobs (hotel workers, etc.), or do free-lance work (photography, etc.). I am amazed at how eager many are to meet me (and most don't seem to be looking for money). I avoided all the femmy-looking ones, and that seemed to avoid narcissic types--but some slipped through, and I later eliminated those. I'm still trying to narrow it down more.

P.S.: I just checked out silverdaddies, and my instinct tells me that those Thai guys are bombarded by messages from older farangs. Also, a lot of those guys seem to be fixtures on there. Some of the photos seem fake (too good). A lot of the guys want big and/or hairy daddies. There are not nearly as many Thai on silverdaddies as on gayromeo. I sent maximum 2 messages to guys, and will continue each day with 2 more to guys I'm interested in. I also strongly suspect that a lot of guys on there want money (some even indicated in their profiles that they want money).

I'm well over 50 and am amazed at the number of guys who say their upper limit is 40 or 50 yet still click on me and happily chat, sometimes leading to a mutually pleasureable meeting. One whose upper limit was 35 said he only put that because his friend suggested it! So don't pay too much attention to age preferences. Many Thai guys will say they are more interested in 'good heart' and 'nice person' than in age.

I suggest you do so before meeting. It's not uncommon for guys to say they come from Ladphrao or near Don Mueang and to ask for a return taxi fare (even though they can probably take the Skytrain or subway most of the way). A taxi to/from the Don Mueang area into the city using the tollways will come in at about Bt.400. I did pay this to a boy once - mostly because we'd had such a good time. Ten minutes after he left, he was on gayromeo again! So much for taking a taxi back to Don Mueang!

Yes - that's why they are on that site!

I don't entirely agree with Icon on this one. Even a 30+ age difference does not seem to put that many off, especially if the guys are prepared to chat with you for a while. I suggest it's important not to bring up the age issue at the outset. If you click on a guy and he seems happy to chat, it will eventually come up and quite often you will get the reaction I've mentioned above. What puts many Thai guys off is a discussion of sex right at the start of the conversation. Ease in gently

I just read someone's profile on silverdaddies (Thailand) where he said he could only send 2 e-mails per day (the limit on silverdaddies) but had 1,000 e-mails sitting that he has not been able to respond to!

Hmm ... me thinks ye all think too much. Whether its Silverdaddies or Gayromeo you will find money boys, horny boys, rich boys, poor boys ... but they all are looking for SEX with farang (or they would be on Thai langauge sites) .. and there are good times to be had for all. However if (like me) you are 50+, be grateful you can still get it at all, and if a small token of your appreciation is required, just remember it would 5 times that figure in any farang city, and probably half the fun. :)

My problem is when I look for fun, they turn out to be looking for LTR ( I have had so many 20 something guys in tears because I am a butterfly)- so lighten up guys - love will find you .

For this last trip, I had good contacts with a lot of Thai from gayromeo. I was selective--nobody with a femmy picture, and they must give me some idea what kind of work they do or what they study. I narrowed it down to 10 or 15. One guy was very very interested and we immediately met when I arrived there and we got together another time. He was the best. I actually met another 3 -- but I had to reject one on meeting him because he was not my type (I knew I should have rejected him a lot earlier). What I don't like is the Thai who will say, sure, they're interested in meeting, and then when I got to Bangkok and called them, they had no idea who I was, and then it was a bunch of text-messages (or missed calls) back and forth. I hate texting (I can hardly even do it). That first Thai told me he met a farang on gayromeo who is going to visit in October (he already has a boyfriend in Chiang Mai), yet he calls this Thai guy EVERY day just for a quick update (they never even met). I had to sit through one such call in my hotel room and it was pathetic--the American kept asking the Thai if everything was okay, and what's the matter--and I had no perception that the Thai was even in any hurry to get off the phone. I told the Thai to just dump that weirdo--it's all just a total waste of time. I'd say generally it was worth it to try to meet guys on gayromeo, but one must be disciplined (and avoid endless useless chat) and while in Bangkok, make it simple--do you want to meet sometime or not? I kept all my options open and met nice guys other ways, too. The Thai guy told me about two other sites I'll check out (he says they're better people). I heard from another farang who got fed up with gayromeo and deleted his profile. This Thai guy also deleted his. So there must be a lot of aggravation on there. My impression is that it's a bunch of weird farangs chasing after Thai with phony charm, etc. And it was weird how most of the Thai on there (even apparently educated ones) could hardly communicate even the most basic things on the phone.

You mean the guy that is 10 years older than he says and a bit weird? Go ahead and enjoy! I don't like people that lie about what they have to offer, though the 'big' part is true.

I'm getting ready for my upcoming trip to Bangkok over Christmas and New Year's and have met an over-abundance of nice Thai guys online. I think the best cruising has shifted to online sites. I discovered a better site (to meet higher-quality Thai connections) than gayromeo but don't want to discuss it here. My only problem is trying to reduce how many guys I plan to meet! It's difficult to cut the list down!

Also, I believe that, at least in the U.S., gay bars and saunas are in extreme decline because of online cruising.

Gee, that is really "helpful" for the rest of us!

Agreed, gregvc! So helpful to tell us in a DISCUSSION group of something you've found but not actually tell us what you've found. Power is knowledge?

"High Quality" I use these words when I talk about watches from Swizzerland or cars from Germany not when talking about human beeings. Anyway, all the other "low quality" guys you used to give a BJ in one of your favourite suck cinemas will survive and find other "low class" guys instead of you.

Just shows your crass quality !

To me, higher-quality means someone who does not: (1) ask me how I like his picture or how pretty he looks, (2) ask me in the first e-mail, "come on, be honest, tell me what you're really looking for" (already starting a little sadistic mind game), (3) respond to a detailed communication by just saying "hi" (indicating a lot of farangs already hogging his time), (4) seems normal and not narcissic, (5) generally doesn't seem like a useless Pattaya twink. I've communicated with one farang in Bangkok who hates gayromeo. But I don't really hate it: I met some very nice Thai guys before my last trip, and actually connected with some of them (one of which I still really like). But most of the guys I met played games when I called them when I arrived in Bangkok, and some were clearly just out to milk farangs.

The point is, though, why don't you want to name the site where you find those "high-quality guys"?

I could make a guess that might well be wrong. Certainly Fridae comes to mind, the Thai guys I've met there tend to be more educated and more interesting than those I've met on GayRomeo. Plus many Asian travelers heading to Thailand and Asian expats working in Bangkok use Fridae.

Having said that, I'd say you can meet nice guys on GayRomeo as well. There are hidden gems everywhere.

I dont think any of these sites are for "advance bookings". They are very much "instant hook ups" and they probably dont even remember converations more than 24 hours old.

It's pretty easy to separate the money boys.

If their profile says they are looking for someone "to take care me", they are a money boy.

If they say they live in Sathorn Soi 1, nine out of ten times they are a money boy.

If they are not currently employed, they are a money boy.

If they seem overly eager and you're not Brad Pitt, they are probably a money boy.

If their profile photo looks too professional, or too slutty, they are probably a money boy.
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