Please don't get the impression that I am somehow "disrespectful" of old folks.

Not being sexually attracted to them and being disrespectful are two completely different things. I have a lover who is also in his forties, and expect to be with him well into old age.

We're talking about sexual attraction here, though.

As for sexual attraction...my tastes haven't changed at all in the past 25 years. I liked boy-next-door guys in their twenties then, I still do now, and I expect I will when I'm 80.

I don't have any expectations that they will return the interest (as some people here appear to), but will happily pay for what I want.

That's the way things work, and all the PC bla-blah in the world is never going to change it.

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When have I ever not been welcoming of a poster?

We are talking about my own particular sexual tastes here -- nothing else.

You guys are like the villagers with torches...bring on the lynch mob. LOL.

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I suggest you wear a scarlet A for a few days.

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I'm wearing an Ernest Borgnine t-shirt today, in tribute to all of the old people I've apparently disrespected by not being physically attracted to them.

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I also think Babylon is too expensive. But someone posted earlier that some of the Thai get in there with discounts. Still, that's a huge amount for most Thai. And it's close to what one would pay for a locker in a U.S. sauna.

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I agree with Icon--my preferences in men have not changed one bit in the last 30+ years. They're going to stay the same. There are a very few people I had sex with when I was yonger who have gotten older (with me) and I can still have sex with them--although they have gotten smellier, and other repulsive things. I only do it based on the past.

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i'm entirely with icon513 in this discussion. and i think that everyone else who attacks him here is also with him (though unconsciously). if age was so irrelevant, then u guys would cruise older asians. how many of u do? 'silver daddies' aren't looking for other 'silver daddies' or are they? the only gay scene where oldies fuck with oldies is the fetish scene. everywhere else age matters.
with asians becoming more financially independent and more confident and proud of their background, one should expect lesser and lesser interest on their part in white men in general and older white men in particular. this has happened in developed parts of east asia and this process replicates itself now in wealthier corners of southeast asia. even in sydney, where one could reasonably expect asians to be attracted more to the white than other asians, more and more asians are sticky.

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[ "QUOTE everywhere else age matters.
with asians becoming more financially independent and more confident and proud of their background, one should expect lesser and lesser interest on their part in white men in general and older white men in particular. this has happened in developed parts of east asia and this process replicates itself now in wealthier corners of southeast asia. even in sydney, where one could reasonably expect asians to be attracted more to the white than other asians, more and more asians are sticky.[/quote]

Your logic is impecible - but the world is not logical and I'm happy to report that in Sydney, Adelaide, Bangkok and many other advanced cities we "mature gentlemen" are pursued aggressively on Silverdaddies. Despite being a few kgs heavier than I'd like (76 rather than 70kg) I have great fun. Tonight I enjoyed a 2 hour session with a handsome 24 y .o. Chinese guy who initiated first contact with me and drove his car to my Adelaide hotel. Apart from a 30 year age difference , we chatted and frolicked as equals , both getting our rocks off equally. I've given up trying to understand it - it happens all the time , so I'm happy to go with the flow

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I agree, with the proviso that you need to work at it a bit more with real conversation, listening and empathy. Rather than "wanna fuck". Especially when talking to middle and upper class guys. They want to be shown some cred. And yes, we should be showing this to all classes but I don't mean $ transactions. Our positives take a little more to display when the body is not that of a 20 yr old.

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I would have sworn to the same thing, but something began changing for me about 2 years ago (about the time I hit 50). I had been the ultimate twink hunter, chicken hawk, lover of youth. But those days appear to be over. But then again, maybe they'll come back about the time I hit 90?!

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-- I came-out when I was 26YO. - yes, England was greatly different then in those far-off & distant pre-Wolfenden days.
- My first preferences were for pale-skinned & young men with red hair; then somewhere along the way I must have met one whom a long dead friend of mine used to call 'Ornamentals.' and that was that.

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And it does. This is spot on biggles...

By the way do you take of your goggles when u do 69? 555

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sadly, i'm all too familiar with adelaide and the quality of available asians overthere. my suggestion would be to stay for a month, not a night, and see if the luck repeats itself at least on one more occasion (with a different, equally 'handsome' guy). we all have different standards of beauty, obviously. since i'm into gymfit guys, i can report that there are probably two of them in adelaide and both are approaching 40s.

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I already had the cutest Thai guy in Adelaide. Met him at the Prince Cinema, and he looked for everything like a construction worker fresh off the site...until he showed me his Aussie passport.
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Fortunately it was only a one night "lay-over" in Adelaide !

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