-- What are readers'thoughts on 'Offing.' two or MORE young men from the same bar?
- My Enthusiastic & Am. Friend is adament that that arrangement does not work;
While a YM. would decline to accompany another & YM. from the same bar - personal shyness? Does not want another YM. from his bar to see what he does or what is done to him? Professional etiquette? Other reasons? - yet he would not be averse to choosing/accompanying another & YM. from another bar.
- Yet khun Biggles - HOW ABOUT BKK. NOW? #270. - wrote that he has 'Offed.' two YM. from the olde SCREWBOYS;
- And khun LikeThai - TAWAN BAR, #248.,(Menage a trois.) - appears, to me, to be equivocal?
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As always in Thailand you will find both extremes. Yes I have "offed" 2 boys from bars in BKK and Pattaya many times and always no problem even though they know each other. I've had two sets of Brothers this way as well. I choose one who then asks if I'd like his brother, (also in the same bar) to join in !

Then again in BKK and Pattaya I have taken boy No 1, at his suggestion, to other bars to pick up a 2nd guy because he wouldn't like to go with any-one he knew. This I find less successful as no1 is then usually more interested in No 2 than in "moi".

Then the 3rd type is those boys who refuse any 3 way options.

So as we say - it's "horses for courses" but I never miss an opportunity for a 3 way if the boys are keen.

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A note on the word "brother" in Thailand as in other parts of Asia -- it means someone of roughly your own age that you associate it -- not one's biological brother.

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Always best to off one first, then allow him to select another playmate of his own choosing. Even then, the fantasy is almost always better than the reality.

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-- Gentle Reader,
-- Icon, I fear lest you might be all too right.

-- Am I correct in thinking that when one uses the word 'Offing.' in regard to a young man from an a go-go bar then usually a financial agreement is understood?
- If so then it's the Payer who should make the choice for the other partner in the sandwich, isn't it?
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It is not going to be much of a fun sandwich if there is no chemistry between number two and number three.

Chemistry is always more important than who is paying.

In my experience, anyway.

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Agree with Icon 100%. However as the payer you still have a right of veto as it also aint going to work if you dislike no 2's choice of no 3 .

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Naturally!

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agree with ICON, yes, its the mutual chemistry.
Also: quite alot of the massageshops offer 4hands-clearly with 2 boys. But I understand they just work along one another then- no idea what the more would include then.

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Massage 4 hands : I have a fond memory of being alternatively spit-roasted ....

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