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3rd September 2007, 09:56 PM
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No, it just means the guy probably believes that "a mouth is a mouth". If you don't know the guy and his situation, it's pointless to be analyzing why he's posting.
I've sucked off many a straight man who wants no other type of activity. The guys like the way a gay man works his cock, especially since he may not get any oral action from his wife or girlfriend. Also, some straight guys feel if they're getting blown by a guy, they're not cheating on their wife/girlfriend. (Hell, I had one straight guy who was looking for one gay guy who'd be willing to suck his cock on a regular basis 'cause his wife wouldn't ever suck it and he felt that a guy sucking him off wasn't cheating on his wife.) Then again, maybe he's just curious and wants to experiment. He gets his curiosity satisfied, and he goes back to the wife/GF and has no further interest. But, in any event, you don't have any reason to be casting aspersions on the guy's sexual inclination. If he identifies as straight, that's his business and none of yours.       |
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3rd September 2007, 11:26 PM
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looks like a duck - quacks like a duck- swims like a duck - waddles like a duck...it must be a cow, excellent reasoning.
your right- it's none of my business, I just found the statement funny as hell...theirs alot of sexually repressed and confused people around...keep encouraging them. |
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4th September 2007, 05:09 AM
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Ok,, this is the female half of this couple. He is Bi and I am very Bi curious and are having a hard time finding couples that are honest at home first and not so full of bullshit.. I just read these posts and I find your comments funny as hell
 <<< NO I find them to be LIES>>> Just who are you trying to convince that what your doing isn't the same as what Bi's do and to top it off and its the biggest laugh of all<< YOU CALL IT NOT CHEATING>> come on .. Let me ask you this .. DOES YOUR PRETTY LITTLE WIFE/GF KNOW WHAT EXTRA ACTIVITIES YOU DO WITHOUT HER????? if not then tell her and see what reaction you get ... HELL , she might even wanna join in .. ohh if she does .. let us know then maybe I could fulfill a second fantasy I have >> to try it with a female.. and if she wants to sit back with me and watch you and my hubby get it on then thats all good too..maybe we can lend a hand or 2 or 3 or some other things but only if she can play too.. oh well guess we'll wait for the next line... LMAO .. good luck C & M |
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#7
7th September 2007, 03:47 AM
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Well to the fish-half of "couple", I'm not sure who you were responding to. The guy who posted the ad said very little about himself, so I don't think that you were responding to HIS comments. If you were responding to MY comment, then a few things might interest you.
1--I don't have a girlfriend or wife because I'm gay. I have no sexual interest in women at all. (Frankly, I couldn't care less if you're bi or not, but you might need to look elsewhere since this site is primarily men looking for men, not women. If you and your husband are looking for other couples, you really should look elsewhere. But that's really for the moderator to determine more than anything else.) 2--My speculation on the guy's reason for posting was based on some experiences I've had with other STRAIGHT men. Frankly, I don't give a shit what you or your husband think about how a man sexually identifies himself. If a guy says he's straight, then I accept that and will only question it if he wants to get his ass fucked or he wants to suck my dick. (Of course, he CAN still be straight but curious. But the self-identifying-as-straight guys I've been with don't want to even touch my dick, not with their hands, not with their mouths.) Bill's the only one who knows his sexuality and it does no good for confused bi people to tell him what he is or isn't. (Note: A lot of people don't buy the idea that anyone can REALLY be bisexual but YOU would certainly dispute that notion, wouldn't you? Don't presume to judge someone else's sexuality. Oh, you also CLAIM to be "bi-curious". Well, how about you go find some lesbian who's willing to help you with your own curiosity? Of course, you might have had an easier time of it in college. There, you could've been a LUG--Lesbian Until Graduation. It's interesting that women can engage in lesbian activity yet it's not really considered to be "lesbian sex" but a guy getting his dick sucked by another man has to be either gay or bi? Puh-leeze.) 3--If you'd actually read Bill's initial post, you would have read that it's pretty likely that HIS wife doesn't know since he said he needs to be discreet. If your comment was meant to me, well, re-read the above comment #1. Frankly, "lady", I don't give a shit about what you or your hubby thinks. But, I will call you out when either one of you decides that you (and you alone) can decide how a person chooses to identify sexually. Most gay and bi men who are on this site really couldn't care less about how the other guy wants to identify. If a guy wants to call himself straight and wants head from a guy, it's no one else's business except his and whoever happens to respond to him. This site isn't a dating site; I'm not expecting to respond to a faithful person (I will point out that you and your husband aren't being faithful to each other; even if you "play together", you're STILL having sex outside your marital bonds). And to your hubby, it's YOU who's decided that Bill is "repressed" or "confused". His post is pretty clear--he wants a guy to suck his dick. Maybe--just maybe--he'll find he likes it. Does that mean he'll want to do more? Who knows? But, as I've noted, some straight men (in many situations) are willing to get sucked off by a guy or even fuck a willing guy's ass but that doesn't make them gay. (You might be interested to know that many STRAIGHT couples engage in anal sexual activity where the woman uses a strap-on or dildo on her boyfriend/husband and the guy loves it--but he wouldn't even think of letting another man anywhere near his ass. So, if the guy enjoys letting his lady fuck his ass with a dildo, by your reasoning, he must be at least bi?) (I will admit to making a presumption that the two of you are legally married. If I'm wrong, I'm sorry for the presumption. If I'm right, however, you two are hypocrites.) |
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#9
7th September 2007, 03:20 PM
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Well I guess its better to be "the fish" half of a couple than be a full jackass of yourself.. to anser your question, No we are not legally married, just common law hubby and wife.. together for 5 years.. And just to let you in on a little secret, WE ARE LOOKING FOR A BI MALE. Yes we would like to have a bi couple to play with but a bi/gay male is also something we are seeking for a fantasy.
As far as what I think<< if a male/female likes being with both sexes then they are bi sexual. If a male/ female likes the same sex then they are gay and I dont say that in a cruel way.. I am bi curious.. yes I want to experiance that side of the lifestyle. and if I like it then I guess that will make me bi and thats fine with me.. My other half is Bi and he doesnt deny it. He loves it when we play at home and I use a strap on on him as much as I love using it on him .. Does that make me a wannabe male.. Nope >> makes me a female trying to make him happy and feel as good as I do working that toy in him... As for cheating >> cheating it cheating.. If He/ She doesnt know and doesnt agree or be there and be apart of the play with you then Iam sorry but, to me that is cheating << if its not then why do you HAVE to hide it.. its like being a kid.. if you are doing something and you know or feel that it is wrong or know your going get in trouble then DONT DO IT cuz its probably wrong..And is it worth loosing something that might be important to you?. if your other half wasnt important to you then I figure you wouldnt be there with them still.. But as I said, as far as us being on this site.. WE ARE looking for a bi/gay male so you are right, you need to tend to your own business bud boy... |
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