An exciting and scary realization.

I remember when I first was fooling around with buddies and we kept telling ourselves we were just horny or girls were not putting out or whatever excuse worked that day. And for most of the guys I think that was the truth.

But then I started to realize I really enjoyed it and as friends "out grew" fooling around with guys I still wanted it. An urge I never grew out of.

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Ditto, was kinda sad that the urges grew but the pool of choices shrank as the years slid on.
I used to have 1 bud that 'out grew' the foolin around but he had an issue with premature ejaculation, and knew if he came 1,2 times before the date he could get the condom on and do something more satisfying with his girl. he also realized it worked better if those 1-2 shots were with help as he came a lot harder. I used to luv helping him out b4 his dates. lol He's sometimes stop by after the date too, if he didn't get lucky.

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I have had hook ups both before and after having sex with my wife. One time, I had just received a magnificent bj, then when I got home about 15 minutes later, my wife was sitying there naked and horny. There was no "refractory time" for me and I had to put out. Luckily I was able to give her one of my signature cum shots!

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Very frustrating - in the early days it seemed like a lot of guys would fool around to some degree - at least jacking off together. I guess the hormones were raging and the options were limited. But as girls started to put out and they got more under control they stopped wanting to fool around and often would act like they had no idea what I was talking about if I made some comment about it.

My problem was I never out grew it and kept wanting more and more!

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The problem I have with guys is that some are curious, but they freak out when opportunities present themselves. The biggest problem is that many guys who are craving cock are worried about "turning gay." I have been playing with guys since age 5. I have fucked girls and guys since my teens. I am not worried about turning gay. I am more worried what hole I am going to sink my dick into next!

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We grew up in a time when the worst insult you could attack a guy with was being gay... we might do the deed - but we did not want to talk about it or acknowledge that we did it until the next time we were horny.

The kids today are much more accepting of the idea of gay or bi - but it seems like they have much less opportunity. We always saw each other naked - and if someone had a good supply of magazines or even better a VHS tape - they were going to find friends to jack off with (or more). Now everyone watches porn in private on their phone - so they may not have the stigma attached to gay sex - but it seems like they don't have the casual experiences that were pretty common when I grew up.

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Yes, we always saw each other naked, especially in high school in the locker room and showers. Kids today won't shower after a work out. They are too shy someone will see their dick!!! I have never been shy in the locker room. Even today, I walk completely naked to the shower at the gym. No towel wrapped around me. I WANT people to see me!! lol

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It amazes me how they have grown up feeling that being naked in any situation is wrong.

I remember we all saw each other and it was no big deal (well it got to be more of a big deal as I got more and more into sex with guys) but being naked in front of each other was just something that happened and you did not really think about.

I would go over to a friends house and his Mom would say "Jimmy is still in the shower getting ready - go on up" and I would go up to his room and we would chat as he dried off and got dressed.

It actually helped us all realize we all are the same yet different - and as puberty set in we knew more of what to expect from seeing friends.

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