[chrisgowa]

Have you ever been standing at a urinal in a restaurant, bar, whatever and caught a guy looking at you? Not the look of a cruiser but just some guy that was clearly curious about cock. You don't want to scare him off because with a little encouragement it might get interesting. Since he is looking and glancing up at you to see if you notice, might as well give him something to see.

I will play with it for as long as he watches. Just knowing I am being watched gets me going. So I will start to stroke it. It is funny to see just how long the other guy will stand and watch. I have never had anyone say stop but I haven't had anyone actually join me either. I decided to try this after I got caught watching back when I was still at the curious stage.

Has anybody else done this and got lucky or just enjoyed being the show?

[KewlDewd66]

Guys do look. They have got eyes for a reason.

I am either interested in a dude, so I start the show or I am not.

There is little good in leading the dude on for no reason. On the other hand, if you are interested, and have the guts to show this within reason, go and have some fun, too

KD

[jonn3]

We all look - but unfortunately I have never had anyone make a move or start a show.

The weird times were back with the trough urinals at some sporting events - no way NOT to look at one of those! The college in my hometown had those and as a kid going to games you felt very exposed!

[KewlDewd66]

Yup. This is where your gaydar & a healthy dose of common sense come in handy.

A few dudes are always on the lookout. They may or may not be actively cruising but will be happy to jump on the occasion... If you know how to identify those guys, your game is safe.

Some dudes are no game. You do not want to appear hopeless, and start hitting on those who are not in. Why would you want to do it anyway? So many guys are happy to oblige...

KD

[jonn3]

Not just knowing how to identify the guys interested...

But the hard part is one of you having the courage to make the first move.

[KewlDewd66]

Originally Posted by jonn3

Not just knowing how to identify the guys interested...

But the hard part is one of you having the courage to make the first move.

I agree. I have yet to see a guy wearing a sign, saying, "I am here to suck cock"

If you take, an easy, unhurried attitude, and figure out the active spots, you'll soon notice that some dudes just come in, piss, hardly look anywhere, and leave. They are either not interested, busy, scared or hiding... Unless you see them coming back every 5-10 min. disregard them. They are not looking for anything... Simply ignore them.

Then, there are those other guys, who are kinda really taking their time. They are making sure that they get at least a half-hardon before they piss. They are also likely to make sure that they shake it off pretty well afterwards. These dudes are usually looking surreptitiously around. Mimic their behavior. They are not afraid to look. Why should you be afraid to do the same?

Once the place gets quieter, and the guys see little or no danger of being disturbed, the ones who want to have some fun there and then will step back and make sure that the dudes they are interested in see their tools waiting.

This is when you call shots. You either kinda nod, or agree to it with a smile, and take the next step or you pass if who you see ain't to your liking.

Most dudes won't lose much time, and will move into the next free cabin. The others would exchange nods, and go somewhere more private, especially if they are gonna take their time...

Now, make sure that what you are doing is not illegal in your jurisdiction. Learn what to do, and how to behave if the play turns foul. Like with everything else in life, have an exit strategy. Consider taking calculated risks only.

Work on developing your intuition. If it feels wrong, it is probably wrong. Err on the side safety. You are probably NOT going to meet the love of your life under such circumstances. Much of it is just a play coupled with some sexual politics.

You are probably taking a quick BJ and nothing else. So, if it works, fine...

KD