A discussion with a good friend of mine yesterday made me really curious. I had asked him what he fantasies about during sex, whether it's while he's fucking someone or getting a blowjob or what. He replied that he does NOT fantasize during sex, he merely enjoys the physical sensations and these are what gets him off.

This surprised me...but now I'm wondering if I'm "doing it wrong"....because I fantasize ALL during sex. I think about porn I've seen, I put myself and whoever I'm "gettin' busy" with into porn scenes.

Should my mind not be straying into these areas during sex? How much am I supposed to be focusing on whoever I'm doing it with?

IS THERE A SEX THERAPIST IN THIS HOUSE?

I'm forty-one years old and suddenly having all these issues with sex....it's wierd.

Just curious about what you guys have in your heads during sex...

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