GH sex question

Specific200 · #1 12th November 2004, 10:03 PM

If you are getting head through a GH, do you like to cum in the person's mouth, have the person pull it out and finish by jacking you off, or a combination of the two?

GASlick · #2 13th November 2004, 07:19 AM

To some degree that is up to the person on the other side. If they like you to cum in their mouth...I prefer that.... If not, the next best thing is for them to jack me off until I cum. I can go home and jack myself off without any help!

ScruffyCub · #3 13th November 2004, 02:02 PM

We just had this conversation. I swear to god we did. I know it. I'm not crazy. I'm not, I tell you!

Specific seems quite fascinated by the intricacies of gloryhole ejaculation. I suppose that's OK, but wasn't he the dude who insisted it was to be expected that a guy cum in another guy's mouth when a gloryhole was involved? Didn't we just discuss the ethical ramifications of this? I ask because I'm curious if he's changed his mind. Since he's asking what men PREFER, I am assuming he's given it some thought and maybe has considered that it should, as GASlick pointed out, be left up to the guy on the other side.

Seems that many dudes who suck at holes tend to eat cum, though we already went through all the ways in which they can indicate that they do not wish to do so and the fact that this unwritten rule is by no means a real rule at all.

To answer the question, for the hell of it... It would be rare for a guy to make me cum by jerking me off. So if he doesn't want to use his mouth to get me off, probably he's not going to get me off. I don't mind if that's the case -- his call. But I'd have to zip up and leave without any release. I have yet to find a guy who can jerk me off properly. Well, one or two, perhaps.

Also have to agree with GASlick -- and probably 99% of the male population of planet Earth: we ALL want to cum in someone's mouth whenever we can. We have our own hands that work just fine if we need them. But it would be remiss of me not to point out just one more time that even though we all PREFER it, hopefully most of us realize and understand the reasons why we cannot always HAVE it.

mascguybost · #4 14th November 2004, 02:34 PM

Yeah, we did have this conversation before. I think it was more about the GH "ethics" though.

This is more straight forward and I have a straight forward answer:

In the mouth.

NorthSeattleGuy · #5 18th November 2004, 12:17 PM

What is the risk if the guy sucking you is HIV+?

Specific200 · #6 19th November 2004, 12:32 AM

Well, like one guy stated, it is different, pretty much different actually--the first discussion was about the "ethics" of GH sex, this is a specific question "about" GH sex.

The question was actually not either in the mouth or a hand job, but a BJ wiht the climax administered by the hand--you are just about to cum, and instead of hitting the mouth, you get jerked off while you are cumming. Everything leading up to the climax is the mouth.

Scruffy--If you have a problem with me or my posts, please don't respong to them. In other words, leave out all personal attacks, even obliquely. I'm asking you as a gentelman to a gentleman, and please no response justifying, denying, or otherwise. You either respect my request, or not--gentleman to gentleman. Thanks--

ScruffyCub · #7 19th November 2004, 05:15 PM

Exactly what are you deeming a "personal attack," Specific?

I asked a question AND answered your own question. I wanted to know if you had changed your mind regarding the last time we talked about GH etiquette, and I made an observation stating that you seem intrigued by gloryholes. I ALSO stated that I didn't find anything wrong with this at all.

So what's the "personal attack?"

And for the record, don't tell me what I can respond to and what I cannot. Here's the deal with posting online -- ANYWHERE online: if YOU cannot handle the responses you may receive, you shouldn't post online. Period. It's not for the sensitive types who can't deal with criticism or honest answers or those who are easily offended by politically incorrect dialogue.

The whole point of posting online is to gather all sorts of differing opinions so that a person can make his or her own decision after hearing multiple options and points of view. That's the risk we all take using message board forums -- sometimes you might hear something that displeases you. Either you have the fortitude to deal with that or you do not.

It's very simple, really.

If that's not for you -- guess you'll have to find another venue.

I'm not going anywhere -- and I'm not going to NOT get involved in a conversation if I want to get involved in it. These are PUBLIC forums, dude -- you have NO RIGHT to ask me not to post to anything you write. If you post here -- you take what you get.

Are we clear on that?

For the record, I had no problem with anything you ever said. Lighten up, dude. I enjoy gloryholes myself -- and had some OUTSTANDING experiences in West Virginia last week. I highly recommend you take a trip there sometime. If you want to learn everything there is to know about gloryholes, the state is chock full of them. You'll be an expert in no time at all.

Specific200 · #8 25th November 2004, 09:58 PM

Scruffy Cub,

You are right man. I have no reason to ask you gentleman to gentleman anything that concerns me--because this is a public board. So, live by your own logic, 'cause here it comes:

FUCK YOU!

I just found the ignore option. Post all you want. I won't ever see another of your posts. Sweet.

--out

Throbbin_9 · #9 26th November 2004, 02:07 AM

gotta agree with the majority above . . . 1. mouth is always preferable, and 2. like to let the guy on the other side decide.

most of them love to eat cum, but if they don't that's fine - - like to see someone jacking my meat and love to see it exploding and someone appreciating my load.

discreetbottom · #10 26th November 2004, 08:15 AM

Speaking for myself only I would be very disapointed if a guy took his mouth from my cock and I shot in the cold air.When I`m sucking cock via gloryhole I love it,want it,gotta have the guys load in my mouth.I`ll beg for it if the guy pulls out of my mouth and starts jacking it.With my tounge out and mouth wide open I beg for cum.I say never - never waste a load of cum......

ScruffyCub · #11 26th November 2004, 08:56 PM

You're correct: you most certainly do NOT have any right, authority or expectation to tell me what to post -- EVER.

This IS, in fact, a public forum. ANYONE can post here.

How you find this illogical, as evidenced by your sarcasm, is hard for me to understand. At the same time, I am glad to know that my mind doesn't work like yours.

It's great you found the ignore option -- now you have the luxury of saying anything you want and never having to read my comments. And I have the luxury of being as hardcore as I want when entering into a discussion based on something you've written -- you won't ever know.

Ignorance is bliss, right? Well, for guys like you it is.

Isn't the net cool?

But really, dude... grow up, OK?

Since you won't see that, however... maybe your Mommy will offer the same advice to you sometime soon, I hope.

You certainly need it.

ButchMascGuy · #12 1st December 2004, 09:13 AM

The short answer to Specific200's question is probably ... cumming in the guy's mouth. I would even hazard a generalization that the vast majority of guys on the receving end of a GH blowjob prefer cumming in a guy's mouth. The only exception to this might be getting a blowjob from someone who needs either serious dental work or to improve upon their oral technique. Otherwise, I'm making a good money bet that the vast majority prefer cumming in a guy's mouth. I would only add that this is probably one of the principle reasons why many straight-challenged males prefer male cocksuckers to females. One of the chief complaints from many straight-challenged males is their wives/girlfriends will either not suck their cocks and/or take their load of cum. The other chief complaint from these same straight-challenged males is their wives/girlfriends won't swallow.

Aside from the fact that virtually all males do share one thing in common ... the vast majority of us have cocks that get hard (hopefully), we also share many of the same experiences whether we are on one end of the experience or the other.

My own conclusion here is that males give and receive the best blowjobs simply because they ... have cocks -- and women don't. I suppose this is one of the important reasons why I am a homosexual. Speaking only for myself, the worst thing that could happen in my life is to be stranded on an island inhabited with only women. That is something to think about.

With the Christmas season upon us, it is true that it is better to give than to receive. What is probably better is to give and receive, and reap the benefit of mutual enjoyment.