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Is there a way that the size queens out there identify guys with meaty cocks? I have a fantasy to fulfill, and I can't figure out the formula. I have been with about 500 different men, and NONE of them had more than 7 inches. HELP!
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You can't tell.
There are far too many exceptions to the "rules," and many of the rules are myths and fallacies anyway. A guy with an obvious big package stuffed into tight Levi's might have giant balls and not much cock to offer. A dude with a big nose might have nothing more than a over-sized proboscis with no penis to match. Thick body dimensions (arms, legs, fingers) may indicate penis width -- or may not. Long, skinny phalanges (fingers and toes) might reflect a long, skinny dick -- or they might not. I've met every type of guy with every type of dick. SOMETIMES, the above characteristics reflect the cock -- you can sometimes get a vibe for a guy's dick by looking at the rest of him. But there are many times when you get something you haven't bargained for and all of a sudden you are faced with a less-than desirable cock. What do you do then? Size queens on a real-time cruise hunt are going to have to either: A) adapt to what they get and learn to enjoy it or B) learn how to walk away and do their best to NOT hurt the guy's feelings. You may benefit by advertising online for what you want, so that respondents are those with larger cocks -- very few guys will answer an ad if their dick doesn't meet the required dimensions. I sure don't! Every time I see a "size queen" online, I just stay away. Yet this doesn't stop the size queens from sending me messages, even though my dick size is listed! I think perhaps maybe they like the LOOK of my dick and are somehow hoping that it is has gotten longer since the time when I wrote down the actual size! If you need to get fucked with a big one simply to enjoy a fantasy -- well, that's fine. Seek and ye shall find. If you MUST get fucked with a big one because anything less won't even touch the sides of your sphincter and will leave you wondering if he's even put it in yet... well, perhaps you may wish to consider either some reconstructive surgery or at least doing some Kegels or something... Use the net -- ask for what you want. Be ready for limited responses -- and also be ready for a few guys who will lie and show up with a six incher anyway.
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Ask
Some are showers and some are growers. I consider myself a growing and even then I do not consider myself that big but I am 7 3/4" X 6 3/4". Yes I have been measured by one of those groups that measure. It was pretty interesting. But I think the best way is still to ask. Sure, some people will lie about it and maybe some do not even know. If you think you have met someone who is lying, offer to 'help' them out and measure them. Tacky? Perhaps, but it will teach them a lesson.
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Corey Not as innocent as one might think
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The problem with asking someone if they are hung, is that guys often don't have a realistic estimation of themselves. I would never describe myself as 'hung'. I'm 7.5 inches, and I have been with many a guy that has gone on and on about the size of my dick (???). I don't get it. My BF is 8", and he doesn't think he's hung. I don't get that, either.
On the other hand, how many ads have you seen for guys who say that they are HUNG, and then say that they are 6". There's nothing wrong with 6 inches (especially if it isn't married to 3 inches of body fat), but I wouldn't call it 'hung'. Keep looking. And learn Spanish. You'll find your guy. P.S. -- No, I'm not latino. But I lived in Venezuela for a few years. Wow. That'll put an inferiority complex in a gringo.
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Lookin4,
I haven't got your track record, but I've seen 9" or more on a white guy on more than one occasion. They're out there. And the guys packing them are varied. For example, one guy I know who is well-hung stands only about 5' 6" tall. He's got a cute face and nice bod. But he has a monster cock and balls. He can't get many guys to do him because they can't get his cock in their mouths and are afraid to take it in their asses. So much for being hung, eh? And you forget the odds you are working against. First the guy has to have the requisite equipment. Second, he has to be interested in sex with guys. Third, he has to want to have sex with you. And fourth, he has to be willing to do what you fantasize about. Because frankly, if it is just a dick you're after, a dildo will meet your needs. So, say you have some magic dong-o-meter that helps you locate hung men. It still doesn't help you with the other three issues. Keep your fantasy in the back of your mind. But temper it realistically. You'll eventually meet the monster of your dreams. But don't be too disappointed if reality turns out to be less than expected.
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Relax, I was joking (kind of!) and the other guys picked up on it. It does seem that if you've been with 500 men and no one has been over 7 inches, that they must have some trait in common other than small dicks.
So ... although there is no 'formula', I'm pretty good at picking out the hung guys, and here is my (serious) advice. 1) I'm serious about latinos and blacks ... that's just my experience. If you're trolling through Chinatown looking for Nessie, you might want to change neighborhoods. 2) Don't rule out short guys ... in fact, the biggest cocks that I've ever seen are on short guys. I had a bf with 9.5", and he was about 5'3" tall. My current bf has a fat 8-incher, and he's 5'5". 3) Forget about bears (well, forget about fat guys). If a guy has a 10 inch dick and hass three inches of fat at the bottom, then you're back to your 7 inch track record. I personally "gained" an inch in length wen I got my bodyfat into the single digits (well-hung heavy guys, don't flame me, huh? this is just my observation) In the meantime, enjoy the hunt! And you're about due for a winning streak! And although I am a self-admitted size-queen, some of the best sex that I've ever had was with a big, strong guy with a small cock. Damn, he swept me off my feet (literally). Enjoy!
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I really just think guys do not know their measurements and they just wish. I have a buddy of mine who thought he was 7 and he was a good inch larger than I am. When I told him I meastured 7 3/4", he was taken back.
But I think it is also because he has met guys who said they were 7" and he was larger than them. I think we are all to blame, our dicks are not measured and we guess. So if he tells someone he is about 7" and then that other person is larger, that person now thinks he is at least 7 1/2" to 8". And the circle grows.
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Corey Not as innocent as one might think
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Corey hit the nail on the head here. Especially when it comes to the age of the internet, fuck, even back to the phone lines, there seemed to be a consensus that 7 inches was the norm which made guys who are average for "real", about 5.5 to 6.5, give the 7 inches reply when asked how hung.
So, now that we've made it completely shaming for guys to say 5.5, 6, or 6.5, which for me anyway, does the job, they claim 7. Then, like Corey states, guys that really are 7, show up, see someone smaller who's supposedly 7 and the next guy that asks them, the answer is now 8. This is an interesting phenomenom to me. I've never understood the "size queen" mentality, but that could be because on the scale of what turns me on about a guy, the dick is about fourth on the list. I have plenty of buddies though that are all about the big dick, so I understand it IS a priority for a lot of guys. What also perpetuates this cycle is the typical exchange that happens on line: Where at? Into? How hung? Because internet cruising can make one so "programmed" so to speak, the "How hung" question is asked, even when the one asking doesn't really care and the 7 answer is given more times than not, since in reality, most guys are average, which is 5.5 to 6.5, according to most "theories" on this that I've read. To answer the original question here, I have no answer, but you'll know soon enough once the hard dick is slapping against your face, in your hand or up your butt. Just keep at it and I'm sure you'll score the "monster cock" ;-)
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Oh come on now. I've met many hispanics and men of color with just average or even below average cocks. Allthough I admit, some of the largest I have seen are on hispanics. Specifically Brazil and PR. OTOH, I've got a good buddy (white, German, uncut) who is every bit of 8"hard. But soft, he looks like an underachiever.
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How did 8" get to be the magic number? In a word: porn. Look at the banner above this forum ... whatd'ya see? Probably a bunch of big dicks.
If there were 12" porn stars, that'd be the magic number, I guess (and, yes, I'm sure that there ARE 12" porn stars, but you know what I mean).
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