I am sure it is different for everyone - but don't make a final judgment based on your first time.

The stories on line all make it sound like instantly you will love it - but it can take a bit of getting used to and the first time can hurt.

But keep an open mind it can be very exciting and the feeling can be intense.

Good Luck!

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Agree with this. As a young man, I hated it, and it hurt so much every time somebody penetrated me. Then I began to get the hang of it. But then as I grew a bit older, I only loved to fuck cute little twinks, and that has become my staple until now. But I can still enjoy being fucked by big handsome men, though I find very few who can make me relaxed enough to take in the cock.

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when I was younger I was overactive as a twink and only enjoyed oral and anal penetration from older guys. The thrill and feel are never forgotten but want to add that I loved the feel of carrying my lovers seed in me and keeping my undies wet. Kissing and fondling is so nice too after your hole has been filled. Consider the aftermath feelings and behavior and how he treats you

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I was way to sacred of people finding out to be overactive like Kellboi - never did anything with an older guy but in some ways I wish I had - as both me and my buddies did not know what to do there was a lot of trial and error - might have been easier with someone who knew what they were doing -

But I will agree with Kellboi - back then we dared do it bareback and there was something special about knowing you had your best friends cum inside of you...

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That is another part of anal that I really do want to feel is a guy shooting a hot load in my ass and how my ass will feel as it leaks out. But with all the chances for disease it will have to be someone that I know has a clean bill of health.

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Yes we have to be careful these days about disease so if your lover uses a condom tell him to empty it all over your ass and spread the cum with your hands all over you pubic area as well as hips and thighs. It will dry quickly and then dress. The odor or smell is something you will be aware of and guys close by may pick up on.Think of it as cologne or aftershave cause it can have the same effect. You will find yourself also acting a bit more aggressive and horny after a short while. Well good luck

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Just remember - people can lie and it can be that they do not know the truth about their own status. Sex is wonderful - but not worth risking your life over.

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