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Yes, I realize this board is entitled "cruisuing for sex," and I have no problem with the pursuit of sex for enjoyment. I have a long term, younger (than me) Thai friend who I love/like on many, many levels, some of which obviously relate to his sexual appeal. I raised the question here because it is the cruising for sex board. There would be little point in doing so on the Martha Stewart knitting circle website, assuming such a thing exists. For those of us living in Thailand, camping out in the ultimate candy shop, so to speak, maybe we could occasionally ask ourselves if we are becoming obsessed with something that is beautiful in moderation, but a little gross if carried on to excess. There are clearly some people here who could not have much time left in their lives for anything else, based on their compulsive, daily postings. I like dark chocolate, some Chilean cabernets and Chinese blue & white porcelain, among other things. I know that I have to use some restraint regarding each. Of course, in the end, it's totally up to you. Obviously StillThrobbing has issues that only he can deal with and if he wants to cater to them ... at least in his imagination from outside Thailand ... there's no reason why he shouldn't.
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Your observations are fairly accurate Kaojai. Speaking for myself I have spent far too much of my time with this so called "magnificent obsession".
The returns have been good on the time invested but at the detriment of other interests. Maybe I can spend more time following other pursuits when I live in the "candy shop", maybe not
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Kaojai's posting was worthwhile and the lattitude/longitude part witty.I have often thought the same but adopted a live and let live approach.It's not as if he said "stop it or you'll go blind".
A measured, informative cruiser and lifestyle blog is Scoops.It guides without being breathless.But I read the other styles too.Just different strokes. Was it the moderator who cautioned once not to move to Thailand just for sex ?
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I think you should stay away if you don't like our deliberate, detailed nay scientific postings on the issue closest to our hearts (read = dicks) covering issues of cruising for sex on crusingforsex.com. They would probably be more relevant to the Martha Stewart knitting circle website. Bye
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I'm hoping the details might also include the threadcount on the sheets on the massage table, plus of course the brand name on the sheets, this is definitely a decision maker for me.
And perhaps the exact specific volume of cum from the massage boy, plus an analysis of the salt level and the protein level. Or perhaps a decible reading on the moan on the second ******. Or perhaps a count of the number of times the massage boy said "I love you".
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Now back to more compulsive sexually oriented disturbing posts... Wait a minute its your turn!
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My point was that there are times when something that is good in moderation can escalate to an obsession. You may find it impossible to take an objective look at yourself, but I do from time to time. Just as someone who spends all his time downloading porn or gambling or boozing needs to assess if he is losing control to the point where one pursuit is becoming a 24/7 undertaking to the exclusion of all else, so too might it be a good idea for all of us to decide if we are spending too much in gogo bars and massage venues. I've lived here for over ten years and I enjoy the gogo bars and to a lesser extent the massage places and I enjoy having a younger Thai friend who lives with me much of the time ... but when an enjoyable aspect of one's life becomes a compulsive obsession you need to decide if it's become more of an addiction than just an important form of enjoyment. If you find those thoughts send you bouncing off the walls in furious denial, that might indicate something.
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A detailed report that I wrote after one of my monthly trips to Bangkok.
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I know this sort of thing doesn't compare to the thrill of longitude & lattitude or bus routes or endless repetition about big cock parades on Soi Twilight bars ... but I don't think it makes me a religious fanatic either. Rather than having a spontaneous hysterectomy because someone suggests that "more can be less," maybe a thoughtful reasoned response ... or none at all ... would have been more appropriate.
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