Why do they do this???????????

iworshipdickalot · #1 12th August 2006, 08:55 AM

Ok I was just at my favorite ABS the other day.

I went and did my usual thing I got the Private room for some discreet nude fun with any one whow ants to come in.Now I managed to lure 2 guys in and I took care of them hungrily.I gulped their loads down.I loved it.I was having such a dry spell I almost forgot what cum tasted like.God it was good.

Now after those 2 left I had 3 more guys come in.Not all at the same time , but over the course of an hour or so. Now from their moaning and their talking dirty to me.Calling me a slut and a whore and telling me to take their cocks all the way down my throat.All of which I did with great glee.I did every thing they asked of me.All for me to get the great pay off of another load of cum for me.Even if shot on me or down my throat I wanted it BAD.When I am at my local ABS I want cock and cum.

But then this is what I do not UNDERSTAND.Each one suddenly get dressed and leaves.I mean has to completely get re dressed.I had them completely nude except maybe socks and smile.I just do not get it.Look I know I am not the best looking guy out there.I have never claimed to be.I am not even the best sucker out there.But from the moans and body language and them grabbing my head and forcing me down on their cocks as if they want to unload in me and make sure I take their loads in the mouth.Why do you suddenly stop.

I ask you are you waiting for that dream guy who is so hot and he is the one you want to have your load.Or that you want that young hot guy to be the one who sucks you off?If I am giving you th blow job you want and am willing to do all the goofy things you like for you to cum.

Why not give me your load?

Come on I suck cock and love it.I suck cock for the cum pay off.Why not just give it to me.What are you saving it?

I would just like it if the guy I am sucking and seems to be into it.Lets me finish and get the pay off I have been working for....thats all.

If I am sucking your cock I also want your cum.So please from a heart felt and loving cock sucker let me have your load and don't pull away.Just let me finish.And if I do not do it the way you want ti done.Make me do it over again till I get it just the way you want it.

Thank you for taking the time to read my dumb rant.

Just let me fifnish and have your load thats all I ask for the time I put in.

Wishbone · #2 14th August 2006, 04:36 PM

If the guys are older they could be taking Viagra. The Viagra keeps them hard but a lot of times they can't cum. I've given up on the older one's if they're taking the little blue pill.

loadeater · #3 15th August 2006, 11:59 AM

from a longtime cocksucker, who has experienced the same problem as yourself, the only thing i can come up with is the guys like variety. if i guy goes into an ABS, he is either a cocksucker, or a guy that likes to be sucked or a breeder. most breeders like to switch around, to see how many men are interested in getting their cock. usually, when a breeder gets his fill of feeders, or has to go (on a time clock), the last guy he lets suck him off get's his load. i'm sure the moans, and the aggression , or the face fucking, you think you will win his load, but then he pulls out and gets dressed, yeah, most breeders are like that. just chalk one up and move on....

Sensual Guy · #4 15th August 2006, 06:34 PM

It's elementary. They like using men for their personal gratification. They, in turn, believe you like being used. Therefore, they believe there is no reason to be considerate of a guy who wants to be used.

iworshipdickalot · #5 2nd September 2006, 09:27 AM

Ok all of this makes a lot of sence to me now.

I have experienced the older guys who can get it up but not cum.Its a shame.And now getting some insight to other guys.It helps me to know that some guys are,as explained to me,just looking around to see how many guys are looking to suck dick.

So I say thanx to all who replied and answered my question.And thanx to those chubby haters for not just bashing me and saying it is because I am fat.I say to you guys simply thanx for not getting hostile and bashing me here on the forums.

Ok later guys.Happy hunting.

shasta12 · #6 7th September 2006, 06:33 PM

I agree with loadeater.... when I goto an ABS, I'm not looking to find the "one" to eat my cum.. Sometimes I don't even WANT to cum. It's just me being horny and on my lunch break. When I walk in, I might see several guys I'm interested in. The LAST one before I have to leave gets my cum. I know it's a gamble that take - I might not get another chance if I leave you, the one willing to take it. But that's a gamble I'm willing to take. I like quantity over quality. I want your mouth, his mouth, anothers dick, another's mouth... and oh SHIT.. I'm late for work.. and FUUUUUK.... he just got my cum. So, when I'm blowing a guy and he decides to to "take a break"... it's completely alright with me. Maybe you should ask when they first get in the room.. "do you wanna cum?" if they say no, then let 'em go.

KewlDewd66 · #7 11th September 2006, 01:24 AM

Yup. I cruise for sex. Sure, I want to cumm but that alone is not what floats my boat...

You cruise and check out other dudes. Some want to get a go on your rod, the others don't. So, yeah, I try to score with the hottest dude available and willing and he gets the reward.

I'd fully agree with the previous poster: no one has got to suck me till I come. Dude is perfectly welcome to give up, if he feels like it. He owes me nothing.

I do not have to cumm, just because I gave him a chance to suck my dick. I owe him nothing.

KD

GASlick · #8 11th September 2006, 07:35 PM

I have always been one to take a while until i cum......the longer it takes the more fun you have! I have used viagra and it makes no difference one way or another on the speed of me cuming!

Depending on the guy, his skill, the environment , i might cum real qucik, take a while or not at all...depending on those 3 conditions.

Specific200 · #9 14th September 2006, 02:26 AM

It feels better to stop and tehn get sucked again untill your cock is so ahrd the hard on won't even go away. Then your chances are better than I'll blow it.

Why do you think that in an ABS you "deserve" to get cum or something? Sounds like you need a relationship, not casual sex (since you think that there are "terms" in a boosktore). You sound whiney and needy to me. Get over it. Nobody owes you anything in a anonymous situation in a public place. You think ABS are your personal sucking stores with your terms or something?

ButchMascGuy · #10 16th September 2006, 12:02 AM

There's another reason you might consider for why some men will not give you their load of cum.

If a guy is married and plans to have sex with his wife later that day or night, he may not want to cum in or on you. Rather, he may be saving it for his wife. A married guy may drop by an ABS on his way home from work (depending on time of day) and want some action that "primes his pump" for later that day or night when he is with his wife or girlfriend. Don't forget that some men in their middle years might need more time to pop a good load of cum and want to reserve their best cum load for their wives or girlfriends.

shybiguy · #11 20th September 2006, 12:04 PM

When going to an ABS, sometimes it's just to have an expert cocksman drive me crazy. Getting older, sometimes I share the load and sometimes no matter how much I want to cum, it won't happen.
The other thing is some guys are on a schedule. The clock is ticking and you can "only get tied up in traffic" for so long.
Just call me married....but I like it bi.....

iworshipdickalot · #12 28th September 2006, 08:45 AM

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Originally posted by Specific200
It feels better to stop and tehn get sucked again untill your cock is so ahrd the hard on won't even go away. Then your chances are better than I'll blow it.

Why do you think that in an ABS you "deserve" to get cum or something? Sounds like you need a relationship, not casual sex (since you think that there are "terms" in a boosktore). You sound whiney and needy to me. Get over it. Nobody owes you anything in a anonymous situation in a public place. You think ABS are your personal sucking stores with your terms or something?

Ok I don't think I ever said I deserve to get any ones cum.For me I just honestly thought that if a man drops his drawers in front of me and I get the absolute pleasure and priveledge to suck his cock.I just thought that meant I also get to get his load.I never thought that I deserve any thing.I am just happy to get it when I get it.

Yes I would love to have a relationship.I am still and always looking.And I am not just looking on some website.I do visit some gay clubs and bars.And just lots of toher places I know of where gay people hng out or visit.

And if I sounded whiny.It is as I stated I just simply did not understand that when a man comes to a ABS he is looking to see how many guys he can get to suck on his cock.Or that I am being used as say a fluffer before he goes home to the wife.I now understand that.So now when I go,if a man leaves me after I have been doing my best to suck him off.I will simply be happy now that he allowed me that chance to polish his knob.And if he does allow me the great pleasure of receiving his cum.Then I will now be even more happier.

Knowing now that either I am the last man he wished to allow to suck his cock and he wants to leave.So now he wants to cum.Or that maybe I am just that good and he can't hold it any longer and just cums.Or simply he just wants to cum.Or he really like my work and wishes to give me the reward for my efforts.And shoots his load as he wishes.I get it now.

Before starting this thread.I just simply thought that if a man drops his pants in front of me and lets me suck his cock in an ABS or cruising atmosphere.I thought that I was also going to get his load.I understand if I was just not doing it the way he likes it and he just leaves.But if he is really into my work and then just leaves I was lost as to why he did this.Now I understand whats going on.

So please yeah I do sound a little prissy at times.I just simply do the feeling of a hot,hard cock stroking back and forth in my mouth.And when it happens I so do love when a man cums in me or on me.But now like I said I get it now.

Once again I do thank all of you who responded.It has really give me more incite to the whole cruisng scene that I was unaware of.And a better understanding.So now I know , and knowing is half the battle..."Yo ! Joe"...sorry child of the 80's and morning cartoons.hahahaha

Later all and thanx once again

Luv

Specific200 · #13 29th September 2006, 12:52 AM

It's obvious that you really did mean deserve. "Reward" as you use it in your last post for one implies you did something that "deserved" a reward. On the other hand, if you truly don't think you meant "deserve," then you would not have started this thread because it would be something that happens but doesn't deserve any analysis.

Of course you think it's more "fair" (if you like that word better) if a guy cums after you suck his cock. As stated there are MANY reasons for this. I'll give you two more:
(1) He just got there 5 minutes before your mouth and wants to stay more than 5 minutes.
(2) He needs other sorts of contact before he gets horny enough to want to cum. Sort of like edging but on a larger and more time distant level.

iworshipdickalot · #14 2nd October 2006, 08:45 AM

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Originally posted by Specific200
It's obvious that you really did mean deserve. "Reward" as you use it in your last post for one implies you did something that "deserved" a reward. On the other hand, if you truly don't think you meant "deserve," then you would not have started this thread because it would be something that happens but doesn't deserve any analysis.

Of course you think it's more "fair" (if you like that word better) if a guy cums after you suck his cock.

Ok then how about this then.

Some one who I consider a good friend and some one I can chat with.A person whose comments I take to heart.And he is a dam good listener..lol.

How about this when I do get the golden oppurtunity to have the chance to suck a mans cock.My original thinking is that if he allowed me to do this.He was going to "share" his load with me.As every one else has stated there are a lot of other reasons why he would not let lose and"share" his load with me.And now after posting this thread and the helpful replies I have gotten.I now know more then I did before.

So now I am an all new person armed with the knowledge that not all men are going to like my sucking technique.I got that.I have always said I am not the best.I still gag ALOT.Its at time embarrassing but it happens.I now know that men who are looking to get sucked off.Want a variety of styles of men who suck.To see how good they are.Much like myself.I want to experience as many cocks as possible.Size , color , amount of cum , I want to sample them all.Like a line of different flavored lollipops.I want to see how many licks it takes to get the center of a tootsie pop.

Ok so now I say this.Thank you all to every one who has shared their knowledge with me and helping me to be a better understanding cock sucker.

Later all CYA in a ABS.

Luv

COCKSUCKERSLUT · #15 16th November 2006, 11:30 PM

Thanks, this is a GREAT thread. Helps me a lot. I too have noticed a lot of guys at the ABS / Clubs do not want to cum. I get all kinna compliments [ Moans, groans and O yeahs.] on my cocksucking skill and you would think I could drink gallons but this is not allways so. I do think the porn theatre guys are more looking to blow. In my mouth on my face on my body or anywhere but in my ass. Whatever, I will take it if I can get it, but if not I had fun working on it. When I have had it then I can bolt 2.
I have almost NO gag reflex left and LOVE having my throat fucked sitting down naked with my back up against the wall. If I can get my mouth around it I can deep throat it. Would love to try being gang throat raped wearing handcuffs strapped naked to a post.