I didn't suck a cock for the first time until I was 47 yrs old. I tried it a couple of times but the guy that I got together with had gone through prostate surgery and could no longer ejaculate. He could get hard and orgasm. It was just that nothing came out. It was okay since I was always really nervous about how I would react. As it was, I didn't do much for the next 4 years. Earlier this year I started tiring of waiting for my wife to get the urge to have sex and I started getting the urge to touch a cock again. I found out that there was a local abs and it had video booths. So I decided to check it out one day after work and found myself in one of the booths when through the wall poked the head of small cut cock. As horny as I was. It didn't take much for me to reach down and start playing with it. Quickly my lust to feel a cock in my mouth took over and I leaned down and started sucking him. After a couple of minutes I felt what I thought was precum leaking from his cock onto my tongue. I kept sucking him only to realize that he was cumming in my mouth as I felt more and more warm liquid coat my tongue. It seemed natural to just keep sucking and swallowing so as to not make a mess. It felt good to know I had pleased him to the point of cumming and that I didn't gag when I realized what was going on. I look forward to trying again and admit that the anonymity of doing it through a glory hole made it all that more exciting.

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That is what is the great part - when it just seems natural. The first time my buddy came in my mouth he kept apologizing that he should have warned me - but for me I thought it was no big deal - the taste did not bother me and like you, I was glad to know I made him feel good.

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The etiquette these days requires that you warn you sucker dude that you are about to shoot your load, UNLESS you know each other, and have your own arrangements. Hence, it is kinda understandable that the dude you are mentioning has been apologetic...

In the pre-AIDS days, any sucker dude knew that there was a very distinct possibility that he'll get his mouth filled or his face splayed on. That came with the territory of being a cocksucker. If you did not like it you went for a different kind of play.

Enters AIDS, and dudes get rightly worried that oral transmission IS possible (if not that probable). And, the etiquette changes to reflect the changed circumstances.

One more thing has radically changed, too. A dude who decided to suck cock, and keep on doing it, in say the 80's or 90's mostly made a conscious decision. He may have seen himself as being gay or not, but the guys around him, in particularly those who enjoyed his services, perceived him as gay. Few guys really verbalized this in the cocksucker's presence, but a known cocksucker was, well, a known cocksucker.

Enters the age of equality, gay marriage, etc. Like it or not, most of the stigma of having at least occasional m2m sex has been lifted. Quite a few less determined guys are now likely to play for both teams, and are actually being their perfectly natural opportunistic selves. A few of these guys are not nearly as comfortable getting other dude's jizz in their mouths/throats as the dedicated, or premeditated cocksuckers of the past used to be. Such dudes, who I like to call 'occasional players' or 'team supporters' are very likely to insist on being warned about what to most of us seems to be natural, and actually desirable course of events in a life of cocksucker. Well, the truth is that they are really not the good, ole cocksuckers of the past, but dudes who have adopted cocksucking as one of the techniques they use...

KD

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The first time I had a guy cum in my mouth was in 1992 at a now closed ABS in CT.
I spent a half hour or so cruising the arcade when I made eye contact with a dude about my age.
We went into a booth and pulled out our meat for some mutual JO.
After a few minutes of that, I knelt down and began to suck him off.
Up until that moment I never considered letting someone cum in my mouth but I was really horned up and wanted to try it.
As I was getting him close, I pulled his cock out of my mouth for a minute and asked him let me know when he was close.
He mumbled "sure" and I went back to blowing.
A short while later he grabs my head and violently fucks my mouth. Soon a load filled my mouth and down my throat before I could catch my breath.
He zipped up and left.
I really wanted to prolong the experience and savor the flavor so to speak but he just wanted to use me as a cum dumpster.
Hopefully I can find a suck buddy who will let me make love to his cock without bruising my tonsils.

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I know what you mean about being horned up and wanting to try sucking. That's how I ended up with a load down my throat.

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Funny how different guys react to the idea of the taste of jizz.

Some guys will eat their own load whenever they jack off - some will swallow if they have not cum yet - and still others just can't stand the taste of it.

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Its funny, I like to have my cock sucked through a glory hole but if I intend on doing the sucking I need to have the man stand right in front of me. Kneeling before a man is an act of submission that I think enhances the experience for him. I like to run my hands over his thighs and ass as I kiss the tip. Once he is good and hard I suck it all the while rubbing his ass
The little clues that he is about to cum, tightening of the ass, grunting are a real turn on. I also like to be prepared. I don't care for a surprise in my mouth.
Does it make me a hypocrite, sure, so sue me.

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