I was getting a blow job last night and this dude really had to work for his treat as I don't cum quickly. I bet he pumped my cock for a good 45 minutes, only to spit it on the floor after I blew my load in his mouth.

I don't get it, what was he after. since he quit right after I came. I figure he was after my load.

when I jack myself off, I always drink my own man juice.

How cum some of you spit it out. why work for it, if your not going to enjoy it?

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Let's say some folks like the action and it is the action which turns them on - not the result thereof.

Besides, the dude was probably also trying to minimize the inherent risk. Not a bad idea either.

KD

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I think KD66 is right about the "head" action. Some guys are into giving great head action up to the point of a guy shooting a load in his mouth, but will not swallow. Other guys have an aversion to swallowing another guy's cum load and will spit it out. I've encountered both types of guys, with no complaints here. However, it's the guy who gives great head action and swallows a load of cum that seems to be appreciated the most.

Myself? I'm a very enthusiastic cocksucker who is dedicated to giving intense pleasure to a guy by working his cock for maximum results. When a guy blows his load, my reward for the effort is a gushing load of cum that I savor like a fine quality wine.

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Personally, I never spit it out. And, I only let guys who want to swallow blow me. If a guy's not into swallowing, I'll respect his choice, but he's not getting my cock then. Thankfully, there are plenty more guys who'll happily take my load wherever I feel like giving it to them.

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I have to admit I'm a spit kind of guy. While I like the feel of a guy shooting off in my mouth, I've yet to get used to the taste of cum. There are times I'll swallow, but it's usually when it's a rough partner who's got my head tight on his cock.

I usually don't advertise myself as an oral expert anyway, when me or a fuck buddy is spewing, it's usually while fucking.

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Only allowing those that swallow a chance to suck your cock is a fine policy but you don't know that until they actually swallow. Don't say you ask them because as we all know men will lie. If I thought my only chance to suck some dick was to say I'd swallow then I'd say I was a swallower, then I'd spit it out.

When a guy is sucking me I don't give a shit what he does with my cum. After it passes his lips it belongs to him to do with as he pleases.

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say it isn't so!!! i love the taste and the treat. it's a great reward, and an accomplishment for me to get that load down my throat. the thought of spitting has never crossed my mind..but i do hate it when a gay i'm sucking off suddenly holds my head down, and forces me to take his load..i am willing to swallow, but being forced is not my thing..when this happens, i often think that the guy likes it when you swallow, maybe it inhances his pleasures, and his past partners were not that willing..

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The VAST majority of men who meet up with me want to swallow. This is because I advertise seeking expert dick-suckers. Very few who are experts in the field want to spit it out...

But there are a few here and there.

And I agree with GWT: it's fine with me if they don't want to swallow. I'm far more into being sucked than worrying about what happens to my cum after the fact. The way I see it, any guy who gets off on giving me pleasure, deriving great satisfaction from that, can do whatever he wants in those final moments. I always respect a man's decision. Some guys have safer sex on their minds and I definitely find this to be a turn-on. Lots of dudes have a mild fetish for having cum shot ON them, too -- I am always happy to oblige. In fact, it is certainly hot to see my own cum flying onto a guy's chest or face or dick. Can't complain much about that!

I DO avoid men who have an all-out aversion to cum, though. At least if I am made aware of this beforehand. Guys who have told me that they love to suck but don't want cum on them or in their mouth ALWAYS become far too tentative and exhibit their nervousness near the end. This can be an orgasm-killer for me, if a guy can't trust me enough to have control of my own dick. I'll turn down these guys if approached with this kind of thing, but admittedly some don't say anything about it until they've been sucking me for forty-five minutes already. At that point, I usually have to jerk off and just get it over with.

The men who REALLY turn me on are those who find my dick and cum appealing -- it's just rather odd to be with a dude if I know in the back of his mind he is "fearing" my sperm. I find nothing erotic about that at all.

Luckily, this is a rare problem for me -- but it happens now and then.

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I like a guy who swallows, but I will respect it if he spits it out.

If a guy cums in my mouth, I'll swallow. I could not even fathom though running to the bathroom to spit

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GWT -- I haven't encountered a guy who lied about swallowing in the 36 years I've been active. I have seldom needed to even ask the question. It's probably because I'm extremely selective and mainly meet guys in settings where I can get a good reading of them before getting it on.

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I love to swallow cum. And I'm always very proud of myself to get that load.

But I love having guys cum on my face too. Or pull out and cum on my ass. Or my chest.

Then there was the time a guy was sucking my cock. When I came, he put his hard cock against mine and I came all over his cock and balls. Then I sucked my own cum off his cock and balls while giving him a blowjob.

Gotta do that again!

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I've never understood people who don't swallow. Your risk can't go up very much at all if you swallow rather than spit. I think that it's gross to hold cum in my mouth for any amount of time, so I swallow as soon as it shoots out.

My worst experience with a non-swallower was in an adult theater in KC. The bj was going normally and I warned him when I was about to cum, but when I did he just let it go in his mouth and then dribble back out onto me. At first I thought that it was just leaking out because I usually shoot a big load, but his mouth was wide open. All I could manage was a "what the hell?" and he was like "sorry, I don't eat cum." It was then that I learned to always take a bandana or handkerchef when I go to get sucked.

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Gee, Jeremy... I thought the First Rule Of Successful Cruising was "always take a towel!"

Had you read "The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy" perhaps you would not have had to learn the hard way!

Yet I just can't see getting pissed at a guy's decision. Some dudes simply gag and do NOT like it -- I wouldn't force a dude to eat broccoli if he wasn't into it, you know?

Hey, I GET IT -- a man's sperm is his life-essence. Yep, there's all kinds of power associated with cum and climax, etc. I LOVE it when a guy WANTS my DNA -- I mean, honestly -- how fucking HOT is that, to be WANTED that much? Fuck, yeah -- it's a huge turn on.

But at the same time -- I personally don't want to refuse all non-swallowers out there. I'd miss out on a lot of GREAT head if I did that!

I DO detest it when a guy stops and ruins my orgasm, though, as I mentioned. That kind of timid sexual behavior when my dick is in his mouth is a turn off of the ultimate kind -- it feels as if the guy is saying: "the thought of your orgasm scares me."

Regarding your dude in the theater -- well, you WARNED him -- and I think he was probably trying to be HALFWAY good about it: he accepted your cum in his mouth but didn't want to swallow it down. At least you got SOMETHING, he probably figured. MOST guys will TELL you their intentions, though: ask you to cum elsewhere or ask for that warning so they can back off -- at which point, you KNOW what is expected.

Online encounters and making arrangements for such almost ALWAYS include a discussion about what is to be done with cum. Guys specify readily if they want it -- there are a massive number of screen names along the lines of "CumPig" and such. If I'm talking with a dude online and HE doesn't bring it up, I will -- I want to KNOW what turns him on, if it's my cum on his body or down his throat. To be honest, I don't think I've ever met a dude who told me to cum anywhere BUT at least ON him. No one has ever said: "Cum in a towel, keep it off me." Of course, should I ever hear that, I'd certainly refuse THAT encounter!

Personally, oozing my cum and HIS spit all over my dick after climax is kind of hot. But, yeah, I agree: sans TOWEL it kind of sucks -- but now you know better!

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Once again foiled by another spitter.

Was @ an ABS with a gloryhole this past weekend, when this dude on the otherside started to realy get into it and I though, GREAT finally someone who knows how to handle a BIG COCK. So he was pumping my cock for all it was worth for about 20 minutes through the hole when I began to XXXplode. I felt his mouth leave my cock as the cum gushed out of my cock and onto the floor. I didn't even have time to bring it back and get my own load for my own personal satifaction.

Oh well, at least I got a really good blow job. I guess it can be all that bad.

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I don't understand spitters either. If you don't like the taste, or want to reduce the risk, holding it in your mouth, then spitting, doesn't seem the way to go. Besides, there are so many times, to my disappointment, that I don't even taste him when I swallow. Oh well, to each his own.

I agree, when a guy is sucking me, and he tells me not to cum in his mouth, or to let him know when I'm going to cum, or he continues to wipe my precum off as he's sucking me, I'm not going to finish with him. Taking my load is part of the blow job for me.

I think it's such a turnoff, and rude to have him pull off as soon as I start to cum, or to have him spit and hack to get my cum out of his mouth.

If his dick is going into my mouth, then I'll swallow his load, no question about it, and I'll continue to milk him until I get every last drop!

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