If we can agree that sex is good, and (most of the time) good for you, then we’re all off to a rip-roaring good start, my fellow horn dogs. However, many of us have a line that we will not cross in regards to certain sexual activities, due to likes/dislikes and more often due to STD concerns.

So how about sharing a little about what you will/won’t do, and maybe tell us why.

RIM: NEVER (Yech! That’s nasty and I am NOT going there!)
RIM: YES (Hey! It tastes like chicken!)
FUCKED: NEVER (Hell, no! Asses are for sittin’!)
FUCKED: WITH condom (Fuck, yeah, Mr. Hot Top! Inflate that rubber tip with your big fat juicy load!)
FUCKED: WITHOUT condom / Pull out to cum (Ride me, Hot Stuff, and let me see you shoot!)
FUCKED: WITHOUT condom / Cum inside (Hot fuck, Dude! Seed that hole!)

Me / Rim: You got a squeaky clean hole? Then just try and keep me away! And I’m bringing my snorkel, ‘cause I plan to be down there for quite some time. (Hey, look! A starfish!)

Me / Fucked: Usually with a condom. However, a few years ago I was briefly in a fuck buddy situation, and we flip-flop fucked each other condom-free, pulling out to shoot ropes of cum all over each other.

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I've been seeing a number of posts around the web on the topic of guys rimming and fucking, and I'm fascinated by how many of us consider butts Off Limits. Period. Cries of "Dirty!" and "Disease!" are the primary objections, followed by "It hurts!" So on behalf of professional bottoms everywhere, allow me to say a few words about THAT.

Dirty: No respectable bottom worth his cum would put his hole out there unless it was squeaky clean inside and out, and downright good enough to eat off of/out of. (Exception: CumDumps, who are in a deliciously wicked class all their own.)

Disease: Kids, LIFE itself has become positively radioactive, and that includes human contact of any kind these days. Germs, viruses and bacteria, and ensuing disease are all around us. And yes, sexual contact carries varying degrees of risk, so everybody should take the necessary precautions that fall within his own personal safer sex boundaries. If you're sexually active, seriously consider getting the Hepatitis A and B vaccines, along with quarterly STD screenings at Ye Olde County Health Clinic.

It hurts! Look, I accept that butt sex simply isn't going to be on everyone's menu, but(t) if there is interest, then don't give up so easily. No one was born a porn bottom with a glorious gaper; everyone has to work themselves up to speed. And that, like the piano teacher always chanted, takes practice, practice, practice, along with lots of lube, breath and relaxation techniques, and, well, all manner of How To's that any web search can help you with.

And as for the rest of my cyber Butt Boy Buddies here on CFS: How about piping up with your thoughts on rimming and fucking?

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According to a recent non-scientific study, the carbon-based life form known as "HappyHole" earned high marks on The Erector Scale for exhibiting an acute orgasmic response in the following anatomical regions:

Neck (long), Nipples (1/4" asleep, 1/2" awake), Penis (6.75 x 5", cut, upward curved and to his right), Testicles (smooth high-riders, wrangled by a cock strap), Anus (aka The Center Of My Universe, an ideal location for tongues, fingers, toys, cocks, and/or fists).

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I can't pass up rimming a hot ass! No way if it presents itself. The absolute certain way for a man to get me off is to sit on my face.

I remember years ago the now dead gay reporter Randy Shilts going on some sort of one-man campaign to condemn rimming as dirty and unhealthy. Well, Randy, you're dead and I'm still here and I know I ate lots of ass since you passed. Sure, most of us don't want to go down on a hole that is not clean, but there are obvious ways to help figure that out for the potential rimmer. Besides, most gay men who engage in regular sex know that keeping it clean down there is just part of good grooming.

There is a lot of fear and anxiety about the ass and it shows up big time in social acceptance of gay men. Most men seem entirely too uncomfortable with their butts, but it can be a pleasure to explore it every way with your tongue, hands and if you're a top, your dick. I maintain that while a few guys can't get fucked because they are literally too tight, most of the resistance from some men is just in their heads. Given a chance to explore, lots more men -- straight, bi and gay -- will discover the pleasures of those muscles inside their ass.

Make my day! Sit on my face.

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Thank you, Keith.
From your lips to my ass.
And vice versa.
(If only.)

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Thanks Keith, and I'd be happy to sit on yiour face anytime! ~

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Oh, what so many men miss out on. Rimming is great, but I only do it in situations where I can be pretty sure I'm entertaining a clean hole. You only have to look into the glazed eyes of somebody you've been rimming (or remember the last time you were rimmed) to know the fun you're creating. Also, I've had my hep A vaccine.

Getting fucked is one of life's great pleasures, but for me only with a condom. Maybe that'll change if I ever get into a steady relationship.

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i've been fucking a guy for just over 3 years. We met on-line, where he described himself as a black guy with a body builder type of body, with a 9.5/6 cock...so of course I was interested. I never took out the ruler, but he is big. He always uses a condom when he fucks me, but part of me wants to try without.

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