Originally Posted by wantasian

I avoid the gay commercial sex scene that involves pretty boys who advertise or hang out in commercial places like go-go bars and think they're valuable ornaments. I cruise other ways and try to get guys who will do real sex.

For free

I like going to Babylon sometimes (and sometimes checking out other saunas) and meeting non-money guys online. Many of these guys are not hunks (and many, when I ask why they don't have a Thai boyfriend, say they are not good-looking: and although they might have some some facial unprettiness where they might have difficulty getting offed in a bar, they are young and good-looking enough for me and usually have hot bodies and are passionate and good in bed, and really like me, and appreciate that I like them, too, and they keep calling me and sending text messages).

Quality is not important as long as they are free
I know all about the commercial sex scene--but there are different levels and aspects. I avoid the outright commercial go-go bar / massage scene and prefer to simply meet guys online or public cruising places (which takes a lot more work). I will take the advice to take a time-out from meeting fakes in certain cruising places.

And I'll say this again: these guys see us farangs coming, and 500, 1000, 1500, and 2000 baht are all huge amounts compared with what they would make at a drudge real job.