i frequent the ABS alot, and love sucking thru a GH, but i really get into sucking the guy's balls. i have found that most guys are NOT into this. how can i tell if he likes his balls serviced or not? i really don't like to ask him if he wants me to lick his balls, it kind of takes away the anonomus fun of the GH. any suggestions???

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Load,

I have yet to experience that 'anonymous' delight of giving a GH blowjob... there's still time;^) And, as you point up, the GH isn't all that conducive to conversation and / or twenty questions...

Not speaking from any personal experience with GH's, but I would think when you're holding / stroking his cock in your hand and licking up and down the shaft would be an opportune time?? Whenever you find your tongue licking 'down' the underside of his shaft, and you reach basement floor... if a bit of your tongue peeked through in an effort to lick his balls? Getting a 'no assist' on the first, or even second attempt might just be coincidence - eyes closed, wasn't watching / looking down etc... third or fourth time probably says it.

On other hand, however, when he first notices your tongue reaching through to give his swollen balls a wet licking, he could very well lift them right up to your lips and let you suck and lick on them all you desire... are there really guys that 'don't like' having their balls caressed?

jacob
p.s. would be interested in how you finally resolved this dilema.

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You're right: you DON'T ask a guy through a gloryhole. Nor is there any specific way you can find out in ADVANCE if he's into having his balls worked over.

Just do it and see what happens.

A gloryhole is for the fun of BOTH the cocksucker and the cocksuckee. YOU, as the anonymous sucker on one end, get to do whatever the hell you WANT to do with the guy's genitals. If he doesn't like it -- he can leave.

And that, I assume, is how you can tell that some guys aren't into it -- they probably leave or at least pull out and back off and cue you in to the fact that they're bored.

Frankly... as suggested above, most guys DO like having their balls worked over -- but most do NOT want this to the exclusion of having their cock IGNORED. You haven't said if you mostly go for JUST the guy's balls or if you pay attention to his dick, too.

Look, if it were me... (and this HAS happened to me many times) -- I'd ultimately leave, too. If I'm sticking my dick in a gloryhole, I want my DICK SUCKED. Sure, the other guy can have fun and do what he wants -- in fact, a gloryhole is the ONE place where I am generally NOT in control of what the other guy does. I like this sometimes -- not being in control, not knowing what to expect. But if a dude pretty much leaves my dick alone and just keeps on sucking my balls... I get bored pretty fast -- and limp pretty fast, too. Perhaps you are also assuming lots of guys don't like this because they get limp also...

When cruising online, I am often asked by potential suck buddies if I like my balls licked or my ass eaten or whatever. Sure I do -- and I tell them so. But I ALSO tell them exactly what I told you: if they do these things to the exclusion of anything else, ignoring my dick -- I'm not the right guy for them. I always let them know that "anything is fine as long as my dick gets most of the attention."

I like my feet licked or massaged, too -- and met a foot fetishist once who promised me great, great head AND foot worship. This fucker drove all the way from freaking ORLANDO and ALL he did was pay attention to my feet. I was falling asleep. I actually stopped him and told him to get the fuck out of my house, told him he lied to me, promising he'd suck my dick and doing nothing but focusing on my feet. This was an encounter I'd looked forward to for a week -- and in fifteen minutes I knew it was a BUST because the dude lied.

Though I've had TONS of great fun messing around in West Virginia's AWESOME gloryholes, for some inexplicable reason there was one evening when EVERY SINGLE DUDE who was on the other side of several gloryholes in a certain bookstore refused to suck my dick. These guys just kept trying to "dry-jerk" me off. How fucking DULL. I can dry-jerk myself off better than anyone else! So after allowing them a few minutes of giving me a handjob and hoping they'd ultimately use their MOUTH, I would simply remove my dick and fucking LEAVE. Not worth my time -- and I have to be honest: I wanted these guys to KNOW they were wasting my time -- not to mention hogging the holes and refusing to suck dick.

Yeah, OK... there's no rule of law that states that a gloryhole MUST be used for sucking only -- but let's be real... getting fellated is what the vast majority of men who are using gloryholes from a standing position really WANT.

At the same time -- the dudes who were wanting to "just" jerk off a dick... well, they are allowed to try to get what they want and use the hole anyway they see fit. However -- they will NOT get it from ME.

That's just how it goes. We've all been in many sexual situations where it simply doesn't work out -- we want one thing, he wants something else -- or there is NO chemistry at all.

Since you cannot really find out in advance if a guy wants more attention to his balls when using a gloryhole, all you can do is to enjoy yourself and hope the dude is into what you want.

My suggestion to you, however, assuming that perhaps you ARE paying more attention to his balls than you are to his dick is to compromise on YOUR end, too. Make sure you suck the guy's cock. And when you're working over his balls, why not stroke his sopping wet dick with your hand to keep him stimulated?

If you ARE doing that and not ignoring his dick -- good for you. But if you have a strict testicle fetish and don't much care for cock, or at the very least are MORE into balls than dick -- you might be better served advertising your fetish online and finding men who are into that. Alternately, you can still keep up SOME degree of anonymous sex when using an ABS booth with a buddy instead of using the gloryhole. It's not quite the same, sure... but at least you can say just a couple words to let the guy know what you are into: "I love your balls -- fucking hot balls, man. Great balls. I want to lick your balls." I've heard this kind of thing myself many times and that's all that is needed to let me know that the guy is into balls!

Rarely, I WILL let a dude focus on my balls as his main attraction and will jerk off on his face -- but not often.

I find most guys who just sort of lick at my nuts bore me. If a dude can DO something MORE -- I enjoy that. Some serious tugging and sucking or massaging or whatever. But just a tongue flicking my balls... Dullsville.

Thought I'd share my personal perspective and opinion, but do understand: you have every right to enjoy yourself as you please. You just have to be mindful yourself that not everyone is going to be into this as much as you are. Given time, you'll run into a dude who loves it as much as you do. Meanwhile, be ready to deal with men who want something else.

I ran into a dude in New York at an ABS -- hot little fucker. I liked him, thought I'd mess around and swap blowjobs with him. He gave me every indication that he wanted to suck me off, too. But he didn't. All HE wanted was to have HIS balls licked. He shoved my face down onto his balls and blew his load in SECONDS.

Again: Dullsville.

But that's just me. Clearly, this dude would be a PERFECT match for you! So if I ran into a guy like this -- you will, too. It just might take some time.

Good luck.

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i didn't mean that i was just into sucking balls, it's just that i like to do that and suck his cock. like scruffy said, i'll suck his cock, then massage or suck his balls, and at the same time stroke his cock to keep him focused that i am totally into him.

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So, then... what signals are these guys giving you that makes you believe they aren't into that?

Sounds like rather normal and expected oral stimulation to me -- it's pretty rare to find a guy who does NOT at least give balls SOME sort of attention while he's sucking dick.

I'd have no complaints with a guy who simply enjoyed working on my balls as you say you do -- as long as my dick is not ignored, it's cool with me.

FYI -- though it would ruin the silent anonymity of a gloryhole to actually SAY something to a guy, you CAN reach through and tug on his nuts, giving him the strong hint that you want him to shove them through. Depends on the size of the hole, of course. Not everyone puts dick and balls into the hole at once, though some do. If he isn't do that -- go grab them! If he doesn't want it, he won't let you. If he does... you'll get what you enjoy.

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Just my 2 cents worth...

I'd be a tad reluctant to swing "the boys" through the G/H to a stranger due to past experiences without the G/H.
Some guys are just too rough for me. Sure I like having the twins licked, sucked and teased, but some guys I've met think they're playing with a hacky-sack!
Guys! BE GENTLE! Start easy and work your way up to more feisty play if the ball-bearer is into it. I had one guy grab mine and start vigorously shaking them back and forth and I had to firmly tell him to stop. Kee-ryst! Those are my nuts, not a pair of clackers!

If you're into the anonymous, silent scene of a G/H, why not just have a small note card stating your intentions that you could pass through to your new friend. All it needs to say is: "If you want your balls sucked, pass them through too!"

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And be sure to have the printer set the message in a tasteful script. No grunge fonts or all caps please. I would also suggest an understated ivory linen or parchment paper to set the proper tone.

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I'll agree that the ivory parchment is a wonderful idea -- it adds a lot of class and dignity to sucking cock through a cum-stained gloryhole. I'll respectfully have to submit my opposition to a fancy script, however: could easily frighten a guy into thinking he's received a wedding invitation. I'd stick with a standard 10 pt. arial font -- but that's just me.



No, seriously... I like the idea of passing a note through the hole. Reminds me of "the good old days." Though I've never passed a note myself, I was handed quite a few of them in my youth. This was AGES ago, however -- and I was always kind of surprised at the audacity of the guys who passed the notes since the venue was a public restroom in a department store (discovered accidentally by me during my first year of high school when I would change busses in the business district of downtown). In an ABS or a situation where the guy has already stuck his dick in the hole or has a visible erection, probably there is little concern that a written statement of testicular intention would be inadvertently handed to a cop, right?

I'd personally experience a warm wave of nostalgia if I were handed a note through a hole today. Alas, it's not about to happen anytime soon, I don't think.

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I'd use 12 or 14pt. It can be kind of dark in there sometimes. It'll be fun ordering those at Kinkos.

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Try this..,this is what i like to do if there not to big..Deepthroat his cock and then swallow his balls and use that tongue to lick the bottom of his balls..its fun and gets that cum even faster!

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requires an anatomical response.

If you want to "suck' the dude's balls, you need to find one with a pair of low hangers. Otherise, there's really nothing there which you can get in your mouth and suck.

If, however, you just want to "lick" them, just grab on to that cock and lift it up and out. As he moves in to revlieve the pull and pain, you'll have something nice to which you can affix your tongue.

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i am very much into the gh scene as i feeder - i love getting the hottest blowjobs at the abs. i also love to edge which means pulling back every now and then. if a royal cocksucker is on the otherside of the wall, we both tend to know it after awhile . . . and i eventually offer up my balls to be licked and sucked. this really ratches up the explosive power of my orgasm. i have very hairy balls which hang low and love when they attention, so much that i usually jack off robustly as my balls get worked on. my sucker has to feel the frenzy of the jacking, so when i'm ready to explode, he usually knows and he's ready for it, in whenever way he wishes when i offer up my cock again thru the gloryhole and explode and spew my jizz to the helpful sucker next door. mmmmmmmmmmmmm.

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