I never thought this would ever happen, but my lover is 33 years younger than me. He is 23 and I am 56. We met online about 7 months ago, and I immediately knew that he was someone very special. After a few months of dating, I asked him to move in with me, and he did about a month ago. He just happens to like older men. He is the most wonderful person, I have ever had a relationship with.

We have sex almost every night and tell each other we love each other all the time, etc. I joke about wishing that I had met him 20 years earlier, but then, I would have been arrested if that was the case! And 20 years ago, I was married to a woman. After I divorced, I lived with a guy who was about my age for about 5 years, and that was not a very good relationship.

Now my only problem is that my monthly Viagra bill has dramatically increased !!! He is hard and horny all the time, and I do my best to take care of his every need.

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I'm a younger man and I'd say the sex is so much better with older men. No fumbling around, no uncertainties. They just take control
of my body most of the time and.. I mean REALLY take control.
I'm not very tall myself and I love how older, hairy muscle guys are just so dominant and controlling. I was with and older man a for a while, he was in his early fifties and it was real rough in bed and evetually i found out, so were his friends. Fuck, just thinking of it makes me hard. They were all trying to out do each other and they were fucking skillful at it too! Not like when i was with a few of friends my age...

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I'm not sure if this belongs here or the age and Internet thread, it's a fine line.

Lately early 20 somethings have been hitting on me without any unsolicited advances from me. Within the past week I've had 3 three requests to hook up from sister site men4sexnow. I'm not really sure if they can't find partners in their age group, their group are just being asses or they are looking for the enhanced experience an older guy can provided without the BS.

Recently a 20yo approached me to take his virginity since he lived local and was dying to try anal sex. The BF and I briefly discussed this and made the arrangements to meet.

This lean and trim young man was nervous as hell upon arriving so we took some time to chit chat and explain what would happen and what to expect keeping in mind his personal comfort and safety. He quickly calmed and off came the clothes. Bottomline is that he was determined to lose his virginity and we facilitated that desire. Afterwards, he was so full of questions about gay sex that we spent hours talking.

Although the older generation is generally frowned upon by the younger we still have a useful purpose by transferring our knowledge, skills, experiences, passions and comraderie, albeit our bodies may not be perfect anymore. This young man left excited, inquisitive and still continues to chat with us about all facets of gay life.

Perhaps he was just one of the small minority that prefer older men for their wisdom. I know that he can move on in life with something new under his belt and armed with a universe of new ideas and things to explore. I was privileged to provide that for him. We are thankful that the encounter took place as the sex between the BF and I has been the best ever.

I'm 53 and the BF is 32.

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My experience is that it depends on the state of life of both parties. I had a serious BF who was 18 when I was in my late 30s. It lasted only over a year. The main problem was he was still a student and could not understand the responsibilities of a working adult. My present BF of 6 years already had working experience when we met (he was in his mid-20s) In many ways we are now considered "equals", though initially he depended much more on me for advice on worldly matters.

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I cannot agree more with you here.

This is one of those KEY issues...

Most young guys do know that there are responsibilities associated with your career, home, investment, social networks, family, etc.

Not having to really face all of those in real life yet, their views are at times seriously skewed, and you often hear that coming up as a source of some friction in a relationship...

The best possible approach in my books, is to take the risk, and let the young guy reach his independence (to whatever extent the case may be) ASAP.

Once he starts worrying over all the issues, we are used to coping with, his prospective will change pretty quickly.

The things tend to get from bad to worse, in particular, if the 'older' guys act as providers. The younger dudes, not having to go through the intricacies of the 'daily grind' often lack the basic understanding of the mechanics thereof.

I still vividly remember the times when my 17 years younger BF (we are still together) was logging daily protests against all the business-related socializing I had to go thru with. I told him to get a job, and start contributing towards our otherwise very impressive expense account.

Though bright and with an impressive academic & charity work record, no one was about to give him a real break. I let him taste the desperation of a temporary defeat.

Just as he was about to give up, I picked up a phone, and got him a starry start job. He excelled beyond anyone's expectations, and we have had a great ride ever since.

BTW, whenever I even try to slack away from any of my 'OMG-WTF duties', he is the first to remind me, where that bread on the kitchen table, plus a few neat extras come from...

KD

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I'm in my early 60s, and have been fucking a guy in his mid-30s. Despite the age difference we have had the most amazing sex for over 4 years, and he can't get enough of my cock. It has suited me too as I'm turned on my young, slim, smooth guys. Unfortunately we have split up now but I find I'm being chased by loads of guys in the 20-35 age range.

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