Hey guys!

Been away for two years and happy to be back... Hit my usual Soi Twilight places last two nights and realize that I am really even more tired of those places than I had expected to be. The thrill is gone and those ridiculous prices have moved from silly to insulting. (I mean when I pay 3x more for a beer than I do in Manhattan, something has got to change!)

So, I know this gets asked from time to time, but please indulge me in my renewing the conversation:

Could you all suggest some alternatives to the noisy Soi? I am happy to travel (I live in Bang Rak) - how is the small soi with Nature Boys, et al? What about Saphan Kwai? Any new areas to check out?

Totally appreciate it - like always.

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hello and yindee ton rap for come back.
Please specify wat kind of place you look for: gogo? massage? disco? o-no real new areas-slowly but slowly it is dying.
scan these sites:
gayscout.com-find directory/bkk- has been made uptodate as much as poss
nickysgaybangkok-mainly limited to Silom/Sukhvit ghetto
dreadedned or dragoncastle-both full of old and long died places
Just the other week i went to a massageplace beyond Bangkapi-got a good massage with afters-90 mins and the total came to (yes, tip incl) 900 thb. But thats a 90 min busride from Silom in not too bad traffic though. had to be in that area anyway.

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Thank you for the kind reply and I apologize for being vague - it is the jet lag speaking, hehe!

I like both gogo and "host" bars, and my usual pattern is to explore until I find a place I like and am comfortable with and then become a regular there. That is what I did with like Fresh Beach Boys but the allure from that place is now gone... and I think the guys know me already TOO well, hehe!

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-- Looking-through some of the freebie & monthly mags. - avail. from BALCONY BAR, TAWAN CLUB etc. - I read that the RAMKHAHAENG AREA is recommended: plenty of Uni. students and few farangs..
- R'HAENG's. main disadvantage for you, as a BANG RAK resident, is distance & time by public tpt. and/or taxi-cabs; I believe that 'bus. #115. runs between Si Lom rd. & R'HAENG., but I don't know its hours of duty. Whether taxis. would be willing? Again I don't know; possibly so, were you to request to be set-down at PHAT PONG, where there might be some chance of another fare?
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No, I'd say Ramkhamhaeng's main disadvantage for him is that is has no go-go or host bars, which is what he's looking for.

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BKK is f**ked. Twilight Bars just chasing $$$ and Solid has changed hands (nr nature Boy). Only suggestion is to try Super A round the corner & 1st floor. Hit and miss but some ready and willing twinks. Sapan Kwai dead, lack of western gay tourists and growth of Internet dating is killing other host bars.

Other suggestion is come to Pattaya. Funny boys is how Fresh Beach boys used to be (minus show) lots of sexy smooth twinks, and there are a half dozen other bars in Boystown worth a visit.

Hotels and drinks all cheaper here.

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-- Agreed in general, but with some reservations:
1. - DONGTAN BEACH is now LESS fun and gay-friendly and MORE commercialised than it used to be - even looking-back no farther than the past couple of years;
2. - PATTAYA is becoming LESS clean: beaches MORE polluted, LESS cleaning of streets and of surrounding areas - too much trash & garbage strewn around promiscuously;
3. - In several bars there are too many, too obviously seeming under-age young men - AYOR.;
4. - But in BOYZTOWN I've found that both FUNNY BOYS, (always.), and HAPPYPLACE, (usually.), worth visiting - the latter especially so on their 22nd. of every month 'Bingo.' evenings!
5. - I prefer EROS A GO-GO BAR to HAPPY BAR A GO-GO.; the boys are maturer but are still young men and mostly 'Ready, Willing & Able.'!
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You're right, that is quite crazy.

Just out of curiosity, what does a beer cost in Manhattan -- I mean, at a male go-go bar that has things like big cock shows and live fucking on stage, and where you can take anyone you like back for a personal performance in your hotel room?

I'll be going to NYC next month, and look forward to saving some money on the rip-off prices that are currently prevailing in Bangkok.

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You're not only one who wants to know !
I'll remember it next time I am in NY

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What are you talking about? There's loads of fun that can be had in Bangkok on a daily basis! I wouldn't overrate the decline of go-go bars, as there are plenty of alternatives. Commercial and non-commercial ones, that is.

And there's certainly no lack of Western gay tourists in Bangkok! Go to DJ station or Babylon on any given day. Browse the "Travelers" list on GayRomeo... etc. etc.

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And there's certainly no lack of Western gay tourists in Bangkok! Go to DJ station or Babylon on any given day. Browse the "Travelers" list on GayRomeo... etc. etc.[/quote]

-- But, as a Westerner, (for example), why spend hundreds of USD. and fly thousands of miles to BKK. to pick-up or to be picked-up by other Westerners?
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Hey guys.... happy to see the spirited discussions going on here!

So the scene in Manhattan is way different from here in Bangkok, as I am sure everyone knows. My preference is a network of semi-clandestine clubs where one can pursue the pleasures of the flesh with other like-minded gentlemen. The "commercial" scene (a la BKK) is internet-heavy and bar/club-light. (Having said that, a beer costs no more than $3US/100THB.

I am in Pattaya right now, and either it has changed or I have. A bit underwhelmed and really just hanging out with some familiar faces. The one most obvious change is that it has become home to large groups of Russians. I never enjoyed the company of my fellow Americans while traveling but, in comparison, I am finding USA'ers well-behaved (!!)

To the original topic: I will sample the Super A/Nature Boy area once the places re-open following today's holiday. Thanks for the suggestion. Really sad that Saphan Kwai is no longer the place to go. I enjoyed those venues. Tried hitting Babylon over the last weekend but ended up spending most of my time in the gym. Amazing: what time do you have to get there to stake out one of those pool-side chairs???? By 1pm they were all populated with towels. (And not to be IN ANY WAY age-ist, BUT: I am FAR from young, but I did lower the average age of the place considerably...)

In any event: it is good no matter what to be here. And I appreciate your messages!

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That's not the point I was trying to make, my dear Khun Sextile, I didn't want to suggest that Westerners coming to Bangkok should pick up other Westerners while being here. Some are doing that, of course, but you're right that they could do that elsewhere and wouldn't need to travel to Bangkok.

Part of Khun Biggles' argument of why "Bangkok is f'ed" was that there's a lack of Western gay tourists in Bangkok. I guess what he wanted to say is that Bangkok has lost its appeal to Western gay tourists, so they are staying away. To which I replied that I don't have that impression, there are plenty of them.

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$3 for a beer with nothing to look at but other customers? Doesn't sound like much of a bargain to me. Might as well drink a $1 beer on the curb outside a 7-11...

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-- Khun BKK-European,
- Thanks for yr. clarification - appreciated.
- I know that it's bad logic to argue from the particular to the general, but while SILOM SHOPPING COMPLEX PLAZA was OPEN during the C'mas. Season I wasn't the only farang to comment on the apparent lack of other & visiting farangs - our Thai acquaintances said so, too.
- I know of several Americans who no longer visit 'Mossland Life.', citing expensive air-fares and generally higher costs once arrived.
- There may be other reasons, such as CAMBODIA opening-up and becoming MORE gay-friendly, as just one example?
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