I've misplaced my cruising handbook and can't recall how to deal with guys that horn in. I'm sure anyone that's done much cruising at all knows what it's like to be haveing a perfectly good time with a guy when a 3rd guy walks up and wants to horn in on the action. Sometimes another guy joining in is OK if the guy is someone you'd have sex with anyway but most times the guy horning in is someone you'd never have sex with in a million years. Moving to another location doesn't always work. Telling them to go the fuck away doesn't always work either. Guys that horn in are a persistent lot.

Is it the desperation of not being able to find a willing sex partner on your own that drives men to horn in?

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